she befriended me and the youth group was a meeting to try and bring younger members men & women to the clubhouse, i’m not targeting younger women you make me sound like a creep
i tried with women my own age @GoldenRex but they pretended to be interested and i spoke to one on the phone but they just stopped talking to me and i’ve been trying to talk to them but no luck
Sounds like you miss the whole picture, and it’s too late to fix it now.
Your real problem is desperation and lack of confidence in relationships.
Tell me, why did you buy them jewellery ? if it wasn’t necessary it was a bad move
And maybe they don’t laugh at your age but laugh at you to see how you react, it’s called ‘sh*t test’.
If you were confident you wouldn’t give a ■■■■ nor gave that present.
As @Montezuma said, try to be more comfortable in your own skin. live on your own for a while without relationships in mind so you won’t be that clingy when you’ll have another chance
For you it was free, for them maybe shady.
Think about the other side.
Good jewellery gift reminds of a great moment. If it isn’t timed correctly, giving free stuff because you can isn’t a good strategy, unless the woman is a gold digger. And you don’t want a gold digger when you aren’t rich enough to sustain one.
I would give a lot for a woman with whom I could communicate with in a satisfactory way. That isn’t easy for women because I am withdrawn and reticent. The problem is mostly me, and not them.