I've given up with women :(

I thought i’d be nice and get my friend some jewellery today for her and her daughter but she is just making fun of my age now :frowning:

I think i’m just going to adopt. i cant see me meeting anyone :frowning:
i’ve given up, just going to think about enjoying myself alone :frowning:

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Maybe you should be trying to date someone your own age then.

Also,

Adopting isn’t easy.

You have to meet lots of different criteria,

I know from experience.

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there is nobody :disappointed_relieved:

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Maybe you’re not looking in the right spots,

I remember you saying that you attend youth groups because you prefer them,

Why don’t you try some adult classes and mingle with those ladies?

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i’ve tried everything :disappointed_relieved::disappointed_relieved:

i’m all tried out :disappointed_relieved:

cant do anymore :frowning:

i cant do it, i cant date anyone, i am unable to do that, incapable :frowning: may as well be dead

you got it all wrong :frowning: idk what i am doing

she befriended me and the youth group was a meeting to try and bring younger members men & women to the clubhouse, i’m not targeting younger women :frowning: you make me sound like a creep :frowning:

I don’t have to try, homie.

You’re creeping on younger women and angry its not working out.

The problem is you,

Date someone your own age.

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i’m not creeping on anyone, you are just nasty :frowning:

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guess it all comes back to me eh? must be my fault, must be something i am doing :frowning:

That’s not true,

I’ve been in several relationships,

And a couple have been women.

My advice is solid.

Also,

Don’t call women bitches and denounce their knowledge as a whole, jackass.

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come on guys please dont argue here :frowning:

i tried with women my own age @GoldenRex but they pretended to be interested and i spoke to one on the phone but they just stopped talking to me and i’ve been trying to talk to them but no luck

Your advice is almost alright
I’m not arguing I’m telling from experience

You look nice man,
Maybe verbal interaction isn’t your thing. you better play on chemistry and improve your confidence

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You gotta stay positive. That’s really the only advice I can offer.

Not all women are the same.

I got a girlfriend once by being in a bar at night-time lol.

It was a disastrous relationship, but it taught me some important lessons.

But just try and be a little more “comfortable in your own skin.” Like don’t judge anyone based on the experiences from the past.

We’re all human beings, and make mistakes.

:v:

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Sounds like you miss the whole picture, and it’s too late to fix it now.
Your real problem is desperation and lack of confidence in relationships.
Tell me, why did you buy them jewellery ? if it wasn’t necessary it was a bad move
And maybe they don’t laugh at your age but laugh at you to see how you react, it’s called ‘sh*t test’.
If you were confident you wouldn’t give a ■■■■ nor gave that present.
As @Montezuma said, try to be more comfortable in your own skin. live on your own for a while without relationships in mind so you won’t be that clingy when you’ll have another chance

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the jewellery was free and i thought she would like it and her daughter, i was just trying to be nice tbh bc i do like her :confused:

i’ve never been creepy though i am not a creep :frowning:

For you it was free, for them maybe shady.
Think about the other side.
Good jewellery gift reminds of a great moment. If it isn’t timed correctly, giving free stuff because you can isn’t a good strategy, unless the woman is a gold digger. And you don’t want a gold digger when you aren’t rich enough to sustain one.

I would give a lot for a woman with whom I could communicate with in a satisfactory way. That isn’t easy for women because I am withdrawn and reticent. The problem is mostly me, and not them.

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it just seemed like a nice thing to do, it was a good oppertunity to give her something nice, we share pizza and drink together, watch movies

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