In my first 19 years of life when I wanted and needed women most, I didn’t have even one women who would say two words to me. Now that I’m 54 years young, I have women smiling at me all the time and I can talk to some women with ease. Someone tell me, was it some big cosmic plan to deny me the company of the fairer sex? Was it a plot?
Idk do you like younger women? I prefer older women or women my age.
When I was 19 they were nice to me because I was really “cute” but looked like I was 14 so they weren’t interested in me. Then when I became schizo they sure as heck weren’t interested in me and became mean! So did everyone though. Now people have kind of come around a bit and some are nice some are mean, there’s little in between.
If I was you I would go for a 20 year old to flaunt like “I’m nick the pimp bitch and this is my new toy” lol jk but I think it’ll be hard to get past bitterness if I was 50 and still single, or maybe I’ll grow past those feelings who knows. Or maybe I’ll become attracted to younger women. It’s a vicious cycle lol
Sorry for ranting lol
You could be like me and join an online dating site. I recommend Match.com. I have a friend who met her husband on there. If I were you I’d look for someone about 5 years younger, so she can take care of you a bit more.
Younger women have an appeal to me. But it’s a matter of, '‘You can look but you can’t touch.". It’ probably sounds sad, but I’m probably not mature enough for most women my age. The woman who works at the lunch wagon at works is always trying to set me up with the women soldiers. I’m not bitter, at least I don’t think I am. I am resigned to being single. My philosophy is that if it happens, it happens.
better late than never…Romeo ……
i was useless talking to women…or anybody for that matter. …i still am !?!
but animals seem to like me …
or maybe they feel sorry for me…!?!
take care
Is Juliet free for tomorrow night?
" Romeo, Romeo wherefore art thou Romeo? "
take care
Leave me alone, I’m in the John.
When I was in 3rd grade I was on the bus and some kids were making fun of me because my name is “Jon” and apparently that meant “toilet” in slang. I’m like “yo fool you can’t even spell it the right way”
+ + =
take care
Perhaps you were very attractive when you were younger and intimidated women with your dashing good looks? Or perhaps you had poor social skills and were just difficult to talk to.
This thread has turned into quite the sausage fest!
I’m surprised no women have ventured into this thread to offer their point of view.
They’re intimidated by my charm.
At least you aren’t a virgin.
I’m not a virgin, I can die without shame now.
It’s been so long since I’ve had sex that I think my virginity is growing back.
I lost my virginity to an escort. That lifted a big burden off my back. I gave her an $110 tip so she couldn’t say no. She was 40. She ended up staying 5 1/2 hours I had to kick her out. I don’t regret it at all.
BTDT. Escorts are pretty cool. Expensive though. Before there was the internet and computers my friend showed me where to find escorts in the yellow pages of the phone book.
Nick you’re giving me ideas
Well watch it. In some areas of life I’m not a good example.
I am 25 this year,since the start of me using this forum I had always say that I hoped to find a GF or have sex and its been three years that there are still no results.
Do you think fear of intimacy and not trusting is one of the reason that I never had sex?
Although I had never had a girl but at least now I had a group of friends,its a start for better things
I had cut off porn and gaming for a while now and had been masturbating lesser,i think my luck with girls are getting better,but no breakthrough though
I don’t know what tell you Gtx. Most of my experience with girls has been luck and being in the right place at the right time. To lose your virginity maybe you need to take more risks with women. Be bolder.