Alcohol music and hallucinogens exists. Whats so great about a girl or boyfriend. Everyone in a relationship looks so happy though. Its like im missing out but the booz and music have always been by me. They dont leave me when im down. They dont have their own hidden agenda. Its destroying my liver and mind but at least they dont give up on me. They never view me as a loser and dont mock me. But im alone. Im in a blissful hell.
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@Kazuma do you need a hug? You are not a loser. You have a terrible terrible illness.
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Beware the unexpected that follows when making an ultimatum, someone’s Gawd has a great sense of humor.
I haven’t had a relationship in forever! I also feel like a loser sometimes.
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I’m not attracted to anyone and if I was, history has shown that statistically they would be unkind and unloving. I am happy alone.
I always think if I did meet someone, how do I explain that I have no friends? It seems like once you get to that point, you have little to offer a relationship and you become so used to not having any, that you want them but really you have gotten so used to not having any you’re subconsciously trying to avoid them. It’s weird but I honestly don’t know what to do.
I was going to try some drop in sessions, but I am 29, and most of the people I saw were there were in their 50’s and they didn’t look like they were really talking to each other.
I am going to try online dating again, but there will always be the fact I am a bit of a loner that will put many people off.
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I’ve given up on romantic relationships with people too. All they ever want to do is hurt you. God doesn’t do that. He’s sweet and kind. I love Him. I don’t drink very much alcohol. Only about a drink a month. Don’t listen to much music either. Only listen to occasional classical on my computer and to what I play on the piano. I adore silence. I live in the stillness of silence and solitude most of the time. Kinda like a monk. I even belong to a monastery in South Dakota. Sacred Heart Monastery. I’m a Benedictine Oblate. We are supposed to pattern our lives after the Benedictine monks. This fits my personality perfectly. And to do it for God is just icing on the cake.
A lack of relationship does not make you a loser, there are many losers in relationships, which goes to show all it takes is for one to need, and the other to be needed.
Focus on being the best you are able, and when someone comes along that appreciates you for being you, then allow them into your life.
Relationships aren’t hard, you just have to respect others for who they are, rather than what you need them to be.
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That’s good advice!
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I’ve not been in a relationship before.
I write romance poems, instead. 
I also have a brother.
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