I feel Iike I’m not allowed to date a girl cause I am so worthless. I couldn’t expect a girl to like me and I wouldn’t want to fake it to make it.
I’m too ■■■■■■ up for love
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Love is not destined for everyone. I’ve been in love several times in my life but that was before my diagnosis.
After my divorce I made a promise to myself to never again get involved again. Breaking up is too painful for me.
The loneliness inside of us can never be filled by another person because it just somehow don’t work that way.
A couple can compliment each other in a million ways but I could never made a broken person whole and vice-versa.
You are still young. Maybe someday when you least expect it the perfect girl for you would just walk through the door.
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“worthless”
Everyone has something to offer. What do you got?
You probably already graduated high school?
(not everyone accomplishes that, there is a high drop out rate these days)
Time. You got plenty of it. many young women complain they and their boyfriends cant spend enough time together because of other things in life.
Any special knowledge, skills, hobbies? You can easily develope those.
A useful hobby will take you a very long way. Though i am an older female, i was taught a bit of auto mechanics by dad as a kid. I built on that knowledge and have saved Thousands of dollars over the years.
Hobbies make people more interesting in general and give others a hint as to what your personality is like. Both men and women like to have a person around who is interesting.
I given you a bit to consider here so i will move along. i hope you do give some consideration to what i have said here though.
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@macy You are the one who inspires and encourages others with thoughtful words! I believe humans are not weighed by how much money they have, but weighed by how nice words he usually says to people. Nice word warms your heart,peace your soul, heal your wounds and motivates your body. Theses words values much more than money! We SZ may not be able to earn good money by holding to a job but we have plenty of time to develop some skills which add to our dignity.
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Thank You! I do hope to do some good here. I have MDD. I fight it hard. I know it is easy to not give enough credit to those with MI.
Best Wishes
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I appreciate your kind reply, @macy. But I don’t understand MDD as English is my second language and I don’t read many English posts and articles. Can you explain?
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MDD stands for Major Depressive Disorder. It can come with many symptoms such as not wanting to get out of bed, a constant feeling being tired and no motivation.
It is possible to have hallucinations too, which i did.
The therapy is to establish a lose routine that involves not sitting or laying too much., keeping the mind active, change od scenery is good too. We take medicines just like those with Sz, but not always the same ones.
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Oh, I see. I can understand how dreadful the depression could be as I had it when I was a teenage. You need to fight really really hard to get out of the bed every morning as if you don’t have a spine bone! Horrible experience in this illness I had at that time. Take care, my friend!
By the way, if this is facebook or Twitter, I’d like to follow you.
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@green5
Do u have a facebook …!@!
Have you brushed your teeth?
Brush your teeth and get them clean
This is a positive action
Then once you’ve brushed your teeth pat yourself on your back
Ya i will try to think of positive things to do, its just really hard…
Thanks though for replies
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There are so many different people in different situations with different positive and negative attributes that not only do I think it’s possible for people to find someone compatible but I think people can find many compatibles.I have found in relationships it’s a lot of give and take on both parts, if we’re realistic and don’t expect perfection from ourselves and others then there are more possibilities. There are dating sites for the MI, group therapy, addiction meetings, all sorts of places to meet people who also struggle.
@far_cry0 I do have an account on facebook and Tiwtter. I opened them when I was in Australia. However I can’t access them now as both of them are banned in China.
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I believe in the byrd Saviour have.
No offence to anyone or anything I think my last days are here. I had a feeling I was being followed by a spirit. ■■■■■■■ phone
LORD JESUS CHRIST
It’s just the realization amongst masses of the dawn to come
Sorry youre lpnely. hope you find a GreY. great partner.
I’m alone and happy this way. I do not want any romantic entanglements. I’ve had quite enough of them. And they all turned out bad. I quit.
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I know how u feel @anon20318121
You can try to talk with women, make some friends and not talk about your sz with them, I did that and I got three new friends
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