I've been thinking some more about this party

A guy asked me there if I drink. If I was Asian. We talked via email a couple of times before but never actually met. But when he looked a bit at the table to put his glass down I walked off. Did I just blow it?

Probably not. Guys are used to being rejected all the time so just because you had one bad night doesn’t mean anything. Next time you meet with him, try to develop rapport by finding topics that you both can relate to.

I doubt that he or anyone else paid much attention to you at the party. It sounds like you’re obsessing over it. I doubt anybody else noticed anything strange with you because they have their own interests and problems to worry about.

Anyways, women are allowed/expected to be anti-social sometimes due to nature.

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I have an obsessive nature about me. I totally know this. But it’s hard for me get myself out of it. It’s just that the whole team kept asking how I was that pissed me off

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