I’m gonna have to accept it’s ok. Because he doesn’t want to. And even though that’s the case i feel he loves me and cares deeply. I don’t know why he doesn’t want to but it’s ok. I will stop asking questions. The main thing is we care for and love each other. The rest doesn’t matter. I did want to marry but I feel that it’s not more important than what we feels.
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Nag him for a promise ring or tell him you’re hitting the road. It works.
He’ll think to himself…"Dang! I can’t picture my gal on someone else’s arm…and then he’ll propose to you.
I’m not kidding! Go for it! 
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Be assertive @anon80629714
Don’t ever compromise yourself. Whip that dude into shape! 
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I dunno I don’t see myself with someone else. And I bought myself a promise ring 
You don’t let him know that you are stuck on him. Add to the mystique and tell him another guy is interested in you.
Drive him effing nuts until he caves in and proposes to you.
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I don’t like to play those games or know how. I guess if he don’t want to he don’t want to I just have to accept it.
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I have some life experience Ish.
Don’t live the rest of your life being a Wallflower. Reach out and grab what you want.
Follow your dream…
Then make it happen.
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Maybe if I stop talking about he will get the chance to think. 
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You’re young and a beautiful person. You just need more confidence.
Take these words to heart. Don’t ever sacrifice yourself for less.
Win or lose on your own terms…not somebody else’s.
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He’s really sweet we have only ever talked never fighted in two years. I know we will eventually but he understands me and never treated me any less. I feel I matter and my opinions matter. Because he always asks me.
I could go off and marry someone else but I’ll never have him so at the end of the day that would be the biggest loss.
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I’m married and if I were born again, I wouldn’t get married. So I think you don’t have to worry. If you feel good with him, that’s the most important thing.
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Okay, I’ll be honest with you. I’m no relationship expert…it’s not my field.
In fact, I actually LIVE in a field!
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Just love is not enough, if he’s sure of you, he must accept responsibilities too, and have to show it by marriage,
Life is not always flower and honey,
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I would say be patient. Maybe he will do it when you least expect it. Maybe he’s that type of guy
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I definitely wouldn’t nag him because that will only push him away or make him definitely not want to get married. How old are you if you don’t mind me asking? You say you are always asking, so I’m guessing he has given you his reasons, what we’re they? I know what it’s like to be young and a wallflower, even though you don’t think you are. If you’re willing to stay with someone just to be with them regardless of getting what you want, that’s the definition of a wallflower. (Not literally but figuratively). I can tell you first hand right now you are able to accept it because you’re in that so in love phase, but things change and there will come a time when that so in love phase starts to turn sour when one side is doing the compromising and not getting their needs met. You won’t believe me or see it until it happens. If a man really wants to be with a woman nothing on earth would stop him from doing so or doing whatever he could to make her happy. If he’s been married before he may really just never want to do it again, but usually men don’t like to be alone and they want someone to spend their lives with. Actually usually once a couple have divorced the man in most situations gets married again before a woman does. I’ve wasted so many years with people who didn’t want to get married only in the end to have wasted my time and guess what? They’re married now to other people. You say I guess it’s more important because that’s what he wants. That’s sad to hear someone say. It means you lack confidence.
You also said you could get married but it wouldn’t be with him. Well, no but you shouldn’t get married just for the sake of being married as that won’t end well, you should be in love and know the person is right for you. It’s hard to imagine being with someone else when your heart belongs to someone. I’ve felt that way and the next person I fell in love with I wondered what I ever saw in the guy before him. So yes, you can fall in love again and sometimes that python didn’t want to marry you was a blessing in disguise.
I don’t think marriage is important. If two people truly love each other, why need to prove it by having a ceremony?
I think you’re doing the right thing by stopping the questions. Maybe in time he’ll change his mind, who knows. You’re both still young, lots can happen.
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What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger 
Maybe you need to get into deep meditative state. Just sit in a dark for few hours and you will receive the message
Oprah and Steadman never married.
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I don’t think celebrities in general are marriages to compare to. The divorce rate in Hollywood is terrible. There aren’t too many Tom Hanks and Rita Wilson’s out there in Hollywood!
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