It’s kind of sad really that I don’t

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Miss my former best friend of 10 years.

She really stressed me out and now that I’m not talking to her I realize just how stressed she made me.

It was a very unhealthy relationship.

She demanded to hear from me every waking hour what I was doing at that time and what I was thinking.

At the end of our friendship, I didn’t respond to her and after 4 hours of not responding, she contacted my husband to find out why. Only 4 hours!!!

It was crazy! But it’s also really sad.

Oh - plus she thought I looked better obese (she’s extremely morbidly obese) and was always encouraging me to eat sweets. Very unhealthy relationship

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Wow. 15255252515

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I had a friend like that who would call me up every day even though he didn’t really have anything to talk about. Think he was bored or something. I felt kind of claustrophobic when the calls just kept coming. I tried to tell him not to call so often, but it didn’t help.

Eventually the friendships ended, but there were some other things that didn’t work between us as well. I think it was the right decision to end it looking back, even though it wasn’t all bad.

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I primarily keep up with activity friends. I dont really like to chat everyday so i prefer it that way. I guess i prefer things on my own terms lol

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@Mr_Hope @LevelJ1
This woman literally texted me on the hour every hour from the moment she woke up until she fell asleep, and wanted to know what I was doing. It was exhausting.

If I got vague she would insist on details. One time I said I was going to run errands soon.

She then asked what soon means like 15 minutes? A half hour? An hour?

It was exasperating

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Thats just too much. Shes sounds very dependant. That would be exhausting @LilyoftheValley

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I haven’t talked to anyone from high school in over a decade.

We all just went our separate ways.

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It was. 15151515

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I just talked to a couple ladies I went to high school with. I found them on Facebook. It was nice to hear about their lives.

You could always reach out and see how they are

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I’m glad that you feel better not being friends with her. Totally understandable.

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Thanks @HollyHobby 15

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you did the right thing…something is really wrong about being so in your face all the time…I couldn’t, wouldn’t do it.

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