im getting there
im getting better at it
how good are u at feeling happy for other people
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I could be better at it to say the least. I get envious when I see people (normies) doing well.
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I get envious when I see a normi jogging with nice healthy pink cheeks from the fresh air
I’m also happy for them at the back of my mind somewhere
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I feel such joy for other people’s happiness and success. I get all warm and fuzzy inside knowing that they are feeling good and doing well. I forget about envy and jealousy. It always takes me aback when I realize someone is envious of me. I just want us all to be happy for one another.
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true
think it is so healthy to achieve that feeling
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I’m mostly happy for other people, but a lot of people also really annoy me. 🤷
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I feel happy for others. I like hearing good news about people I know especially.
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I think what you are talking about is jealousy @anon90843118
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wa ya mean by that @anon98459728
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Well if you feel bad about someone feeling good, it is jealousy.
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yes,
idk if this is the same thing thou,
but also feeling like life is unfair is another
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it is a reminder that life can be so unfair
like it hits u in the face
so it is not always easy to feel happy for someone
but wen u can do it that’s really great
cos it makes u feel good
Hello. I try to ignore other people, and focus on my own wellbeing.
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I know where u are coming from I think
im referring more to giving urself incentive to make others happy is really good. like not being stingey but sharing joy and seeing them happy makes u happy.
I feel like an angel today haha, from my revelation
I get pissed when I see my brother going for a cycle. Reminds me how behind with my fitness I am. He’s an athlete and he Bragg’s about it
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I think it can maybe be harder to feel happy for others wen u are in a really really bad place aand not sure if u will ever come out of it or get worse or something really shitty situation like REAL shiitty situation
cos the happiness in ur face can be overwhelming.
who agrees?
yeah I am am really not a fan of bragging, u can say, but bragging is a bit over the top
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If others are doing well I’m good.
It’s fine by me.
Moreover, I find that if people are doing well, it makes them more attractive as acquaintances.
( So essentially I esteem the happiness and success of other people and think these things
are generally positive).
However, I am not going to spend time and energy trying to directly assist other people,
apart maybe from my parents.
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Always happy to make others happy, sometimes even if it’s out of place.
Always sad to see others crying or upset.
I love hugs 
I don’t understand people who love to be so effin mean.
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I get happy about other people’s successes. I’ve never been the jealous and envious type. In past 5 years I’ve realized that a lot of people were envious and jealous of because of some of the comments I heard and especially my Facebook where I had pictures of me traveling, modeling etc. I realized that I’m only going to share my successes with people that I know who are not going to be jealous of me or envious and most of all not judge me. I’ve made mistakes in the past but nowadays I keep a lot of things too myself except for some people.
It takes time to filter out the right people and who you can be friends with. I’ve even had women hate on me as well. I think as people mature they tend to not be so immature and genuinely develop a sense of peace. I try to stay positive and grateful and try to work towards my goals little by little. I still have my bad days where I get depressed because of this illness but I still try to remain optimistic.
You know the funny thing is that I used to be naive and thought everyone admired successful people but the reality is far from the truth. Instead of being inspired people project there insecurities on those that are doing better than us. Another thing I noticed is that most people don’t try to compete with celebrities but rather get envious and jealous of there peers which is weird.
Regardless the point I’m trying to make is that no matter what always be happy for other people’s successes and there achievements and appreciate all the work that has gone into getting to that point.
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