Issues at home

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I have issues at home and no one I can trust to talk to.

I’m sad, hurt, and frustrated. My spirit is being broken,

I don’t know what to do.

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What’s going on? Hard to help on here when we don’t know the exact situation.

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I’m sorry @anon92321969.

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My husband is angry all day everyday.

If I clean, I’m doing it wrong. If I don’t clean, I’m lazy.

He talks about wanting to die and hating his life, He’s in severe chronic pain.

If I say something he says he’s just sick of his pain and it’s not me. But I feel like it is,

He talks about suicide throughout the day almost everyday.

I’m unable to cook or clean now due to my surgery I’m recovering from so now it’s even worse. I also can’t take care of the dogs for now, But he’s angry at having to care for the dogs.

He walks around yelling all day everyday now. I’m broken from this. It cuts deep. I truly love him.

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Can you talk with your case worker? Can you stay somewhere else and get a break? Sometimes even a short time away can help.

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Is there any treatment for his chronic pain that he could have that he’s refusing?

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I understand your husband is in a lot of pain. Still, that’s no reason to treat you poorly.

If i’m being 100% honest, he doesn’t sound like a great person to be around. Especially for your mental health.

Do you stick up for yourself? If he raises his voice at you, tell him to stop and you wont put up with it.

Has he seen many doctors for his physical pain? There has to be other things he can try.

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@TheCanuk @HollyHobbie @everhopeful

He has had surgery and is on a 24/7 pain pump. Unfortunately it doesn’t help enough.

He does exercises to help heal his spine very single day to no avail

He’s uncomfortable with me going elsewhere without him. He wants us to do everything together.

I’m not really sure how my case manager can help.

He can be extremely selfless, generous, and loving, but his pain can cause serious irritability

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I remember in the past on here you mentioned that he doesnt want you talking to other men.

He sounds very controlling. Which is a bad trait. Men and women can be just friends. Not every man to woman relationship involves sex.

His pain is not a good excuse to be mean.

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Ok. If you need a break, you can find temporary shelter and more here https://www.findhelp.org/.

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I’m not being abused. Men can be imperfect without being abusive.

That said, I appreciate the caring thoughts

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So sorry you are going through such a difficult time with your husband. (Hugs)

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Thanks @Vinegar .

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At least explain the situation to them. Two heads are better than one. Maybe they can help.

As it stands it sounds like you’re trying to deal with this all on your own.

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so sorry you are going through a hard and difficult time @anon92321969 hope things get better for you and your Husband

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Thanks @psychward101

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you are very welcome ever need someone to listen pm or dm me I am a good listener@ LoveHiking

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