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Ish no friends

Yeah I miss having those friends but please kick sense into me on why I shouldn’t contact them again :pleading_face:

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You are who you surround yourself with :zebra::zebra::zebra:

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Yes, I’ve had some really cool, great friends before and after becoming schizophrenic. It always turns into abuse. They were cool people and they introduced me to a lot of cool fun stuff like bowling, pool, Little League, eventually smoking pot, and other stuff but I am a leery of jumping back in the saddle and having friends again because I can’t get past the sadistic verbal bullying that my friendships always become.

I have clicked with certain people I’ve met these past years, both female and male and I could see a friendship forming but I’m afraid of damn commitment, even if it’s just going out to coffee. I like things just the way they are with people at work. I’m friendly and I talk to everybody without having to have some deep serious relationship.

And with the people at work it’s not like I am only friendly when they’re nice to me. I accept that they get in bad moods sometimes and get mad at me or grumpy or that they are not perfect and they get defensive at times etc. Because I often am the same way.

Damn if all this is true than nothing is stopping me from having a friendship again! Live and learn!

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Friends have all disappeared, they know I have SZ and want nothing to do with it.

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You need friends that love and support you and appreciate you for who you are.

Those “friends” you were hanging out with werent good for you

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I am in the same lonely boat as you. Actually I drove them away. Whether that was on purpose or not is still a mystery to me. I think I just hate people in general, quite honestly.

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I think having one or two close friends that are like family is important. But not all friends are worth keeping. Some come and go.

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That would be no one lol :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:

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