Socializing/making friends

I don’t know what I want with This thread, I just have to let things out.
I find it so Hard to interact with other People and make friends since I’ve been sick. It starts out fine People are showing a lot of interest and then it suddenly stops and they don’t want to talk to me. Any of you having the same problem?

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No I don’t have that problem

But I don’t care about socializing much

I just interact with people when the situation arises

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I find it very hard to socialize with strangers, especially normies, i stick to my small circle of odd friends. The older you get, the more difficult it is to find new friends.
It’s sad.
Hope you find someone to socialize with.

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Maybe that’s a good Thing to have a few but close friends around you. I have the problem that I’m never satisfied, I always believe that I need to know.more People instead of appreciating those I have around me.

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Sounds like you’re dealing with a lot of rejection. Why do you think they lose interest flowerpot?

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As long as i have books to read,
I dont care for people or friends.

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Actually I think it is because I’m either too needy and seek a lot of contact too early or too nervous so that I can’t relax when I’m around new People. But yes there have been a lot of rejection since I moved across the country 5 years ago.

Maybe I shouldn’t care neither, Since I have plenty of books

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It must be tough when trying to meet your needs just pushes people away. It’s good that you’re insightful about this. Life finds a way :t_rex:

I know that good friends are
something valuable, like family.
I have no one that i can say
I feel close to my soul and way of thinking.

I have some, few, friends but not good friends.

Thank you for your answers. I figured that I need to work on my relationship with my self given my low selfesteem (I had some traunatic experiences that very much changed the way I feel about my self)

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A few good friends is a lot more valuable to me than a load of contacts that Im not close with.

I struggle to make new friends. But I tend to keep friends once its been established.

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