My provider is very good at defending herself and I just noted that I’m not. A skill I hope to pick up from her.
I’m very bad at it too, so much so that il resort to physical violence, because I can’t damage them verbally, so il think about hurting them
I understand that tendency to get physical very well. We need to strengthen our minds.
Give them enough rope and they’ll hang themselves. It normally works for me. Other than that I’m also very poor to defend myself. I just fear conflict.
For me it’s really dificult to defend myself in an argument because my mind goes slower than the other person’s mind. So the other person wins.
What do you mean by that @Fellowman? This could help me with my brother
I find myself short of words, always trying to get out how I feel but end up with statements like ‘i don’t like you very much’ or ‘shes an awful woman’ — it’s so annoying because I used to argue and fight well … I can’t be strong enough to make any impact at all…