I cant stand up for myself at all

I found I have a deep issue with my personality
I cant defend myself even if I was right
Resulting in losing many chances in my life including my rights

I dont why I feel terrified when I am in a situation to defend my self or If I get into any kind of trouble

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I can’t defend myself. I have no people skills, I’ve been alone for years. I just walk away because if I didn’t I’d explode.

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I’m the same. I can’t defend myself. It’s one of the core reasons why I developed SZ. I’m quite sure of that. I have been so bullied, even by my x-gf and friends.

I can’t believe shitty genes like this exist. I’m always crawling at the bottom. Always beneath everyone else.

I can’t get angry. I always have anxiety. I become weak when I confront people. It sucks!

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Tell me more! 1524

IDK I just don’t have people skills.

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Yeah, I know how it is.

I often remain silent in those situations and then want to respond a long time later when it’s actually too late.

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Somone stole from me more than 1500 $
And I even cant get it back
I reported to the police they took my words but I talked in a confused manner … I found out they just dismissed my report

Now If I face any similar situation I just blame myself and surrender to the unknown

Poor me

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That sucks @xdanny .

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People just want to laugh at me. It makes them feel comfortable or like they have power over me or I am totally controlled. Staying in the board & care gave me some confidence to stick up for myself and fight back but some shitty people after that pretty much stole that from me.

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I understand you im similar

I can’t defend myself either.

I may go quiet and uncomfortable.

I will try to limit my time with people to ten minutes.
Even my own family.

Sitting uncomfortable for a hour or more n unable to defend yourself or speak up isn’t what I want for myself so I will try to tell people I/you can’t stay for more than ten minutes because it exhausting to me.

They may think all kinds of things but I need boundaries to protect myself.
Specially since I can’t stand up for myself.

I’m comfortable with my boyfriend but uncomfortable around most other people.

I was beautiful with n comfortable n at home with my x too.loved being with him 24/7.
Every moment precious.

My own dad i can feel uncomfortable with and he has saidbad things so I think only ten minutes for him and we only see each other twice a year or so.

Don’t thinkme so maybe seem to tantrums that i should not have it as good as I do.

Check if you have autism in addition to sz. See it as a positive feature, we are all different

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