I had a boyfriend once upon a time, back in like middle school. Amazing. I lost contact with him when I moved schools, I heard things about him from friends and knew which high school he went to but just couldn’t get in contact with him for some reason. I finally found him again, after hearing he ran away and was homeless from one of my friends. My friend had told me he brought him home to his mother. He is currently living there. We linked up and we’re hanging out ALL the time I noticed there was something off about he wasn’t that person I knew from back in the day. He would tell me he loved me all the time but it’s hard for me to believe it, he is so distant and something recently happen to where his mother and brother don’t want me to see him anymore. I’m going crazy wondering what I did wrong. They said he is insane about me… what does that mean?
It sounds like he might have some mental health issues to work through, too. How old are you guys?
He is the one who has schizophrenia, I think he may be a disorganized schizophrenic. His mom didn’t say.
If he has schizophrenia, and you don’t, then I’d like to encourage you to join our forum for Family and Caregivers that can be found at:
While this is a peer support forum for people with schizophrenia and other closely related psychotic disorders, the Family forum is specifically for people like yourself, who have a loved one they are concerned about.
Also, please let your loved one know about this forum as they may find it helpful.
Best of luck,
Ninjastar
Volunteer Moderator
honestly you could hurt him if you dont love him but if i were you id just find out myself by telling the truth , ask for more information or just go right in and ask him yourself
He says he does love me. It’s just hard to believe
what makes him insane about you and why do they say not to see him ?
That’s the thing… they won’t tell me I’ve tried to contact them no answers. So I thought I’d give it more time cause I don’t want to overwhelm them or anything
I think I atleast deserve to know why but they won’t tell me
Maybe you need to make a house call and explain to the mother what your intentions and feelings are toward the guy. Hopefully they will open up to you about what is going on.
I seem distant because of my disease but i am trying my best on the inside to follow what people are saying to me in conversation. He may seem distant to you but he has so much sh i t going on in his head from schizophrenia it’s really hard to focus . If he says he loves you there is no reason to doubt his word. You should do some research on the illness to see what you will be getting into if you pursue this relationship.
@Forgotten_melody, schizophrenia is a very complicated disorder. Sometimes, when we are very unwell, it is better for everyone if we don’t pursue romantic relationships. If you guys are under 18, you have to respect his parents’ wishes. They are probably just trying to do what is best for him. If he is over 18, and wants to pursue a relationship but is being prevented from doing so, that is an entirely different problem. Either way, I think you’ll get more answers at the family forum rather than here.
@Ninjastar, I want to say what you think about that " Psychosis is a legal cause of Divorce." So why she wants him? Is only love is enough?
I can feel love but I was with my partner before I got sick so the love was there already. I don’t know if he can love you, but maybe talk to his mother and brother to find out more about why they don’t want you with him.
We were together waaaay back in the day and we did care about each other a great deal. And the thing is I can’t get a response from them.
By the way I already made another profile with the family and friends column
Okay, that’s good. Since you have an account over there, I will close this topic.