İ m 40 years old and look like i will be alone( without SO) Rest of my life.my question is is it hard to be alone after 50’s.is there any struggle to be alone
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it all depends on the person and their specific mindset and social needs.
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I don’t know, i am only sometimes alone. There is always some kind of centre to go to socialise. Especially for people with mental illness they are lots of places. I find i feel more alone in the city as in the country.
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I am happy alone. I am 51. I dont look for relationships as I find them of obsessive possessive nature plus it is based on attachments to the past and future and that is not good. that is how i think. i pay women for sex. i love women deeply. However i do not like to have to please somebody. i do not like to have to do anything. i have friendship with the women. i dont feel lonely. if you dont find happiness in yourself you will not find it on somebody else. look within. start with the man in the mirror like Michael Jackson used to sing.
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I don’t mind being alone as long as I have family and friends around
I live on my own and I like the peace and quiet I like independence freedom
The only thing I ask for is to be healthy in mind and body
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I used to do that until it became an addiction and I emptied my bank account. I also contracted Hepatitis B virus from one women. Luckily my body got rid of the virus completely my Dr told me as sometimes the infection stays for life and you can infect others. I thought condoms would protect me but they didn’t to 100%.
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you don’t have to be alone…I always found someone online dating like plenty of fish dot com…it’s free…dont be afraid to really get to know someone before you meet them…you don’t have to be alone.
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luckily never got nothing. always protection. it does the trick for me. I also spent an audi on women. it is my favorite thing to do, sex, so i work, make money, and spend it on women. hepatitis is serious business, you were lucky to get rid of it. viruses are hard to eliminate.
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Yea that was another problem I had, I couldn’t work and I used all the money I saved from when I was able to work before sz. Anyways just watchout for STDs and do regular blood tests for them. I think I got Hepatitis B from touching condoms and genitals then forgetting to wash my hands and eating with them.
blood tests on a regular basis is being on the safe side. I dont make lots of money but god knows i am happy to spend it with them. i dont approach civilians. i only do call women. no past, no future, no history. besides most civilians are ■■■■,d up in the head with their collective thinking. and they dangerous. you never know what you’re gonna get from a civilian.
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another thing. men, civilians, they all into who is the best. they running. i dont approach men. i dont like them. they speak loud. they believe in violence. it is just primitive and dangerous. i dont mix. i dont like to talk to men unless they can teach me something. most of them is all about i am this, i am that, i did this, i did that. I always think of buying medals to distribute to the champs. lol. they into reputation, proving themselves and that kind of stupid social sh.t.
i have never paid for sex. i cant imagine it without an emotional connection. for thats how it started out for me. havent got laid in ten years save for some cuddling and a little hanky panky.
im more the romantic sort. always was. was when i was eight and am now. one of my exs was 48 and she was alone a long time in her 40s. she was love starved when we met. accidently proposed to her. i said marry me and she sobbed. i was in over my head then. didnt work out well and she died in 2013.
im alone now. i miss the connection you share. the affection. the feeling of security. in my 20s i wasnt affraid of being alone so i didnt hold on for dear life. wish i had.
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You guys do alot to have sex. I don’t feel the urge at all. Weird! When I do feel horny I take care of that by myself.
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Thats what I have been doing since 2019 lol Saved lots of money by not paying for sex anymore.
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What happened @anon68444330 ??
Don’t worry if you don’t want to share with us
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i can find no better use for money than sex with pretty women.
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@egofree Just after my divorce I paid a lady for a full body massage. She added a happy ending which was not part of the deal. I asked her why did she do that to which she replied, “I’m nice to nice people”.
We chat for a bit and she offered one of her rooms for free to me to join her with her massage bussines. My brain was still ■■■■■■ up from the divorce so I declined the offer. Who knows where that road would have lead me.
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yes. they are women. they are sweet. society puts them down because of morals and all this bs. they are lovely. i am always a gentleman so they treat me nice back. you did what you felt right. that is key.
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Nothing.i just want to be alone but i don t want to be a mistake when i choose to be alone.i m done with everybody so far.people are annoying especially my relatives
I don’t use them but I have known sex workers and they need legal protections. As long as they have chose or this is their only option for survival. I think legal protection can save some of their lives and help with stigma and help them with their mental health.
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