Is it better to tell?

I 'd like to try to be open with people about having scizophrenia and I am to a certain degree. But I was talking to a women who told me she dosn’t tell a soul and because medical records are confidential we can do that.

Do any of you tell other people?

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I came to tell a colleagues at work because it came up somehow. Turned out she had a history of taking psych meds, so she was very understanding.

Other than that, no. People at work know there is a reason I’m only working part time, but they don’t ask or pry.

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I made a blog post stating that I have mental illness. Other than that I don’t tell people. But then again I dont talk to people. Im a loner.

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No.

It is not better to tell.

In almost every single case.

Don’t tell people your diagnosis.

It’s not their business and it’s weird to just divulge medical information on everyone like that.

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My close friends and family know.

But I wouldn’t go tell strangers.

You need to decide if you trust someone with that info.

There is always a risk they might use it against you.

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No. Why would you? Even when they ask you are not obliged to most of the time.

Maybe employer. And your family, close friends.

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only tell loves ones and trusted friends

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People wont get it they are scared of severe mental illness imo

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Your not that much of a loner my friend you’ve got the people on this forum minimum.

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I don’t tell most people other than doctors who need to know my diagnosis.
It’s no one’s business frankly

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Thats the media and Hollywoods fault

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I could care less who knows

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Only difference between me and “normal” people is that I take a medication everyday that makes me a bit drowsy and slow. I don’t see that as an important fact I need to tell people.

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If they’re good people,
I tell them.
I’m open. I answer their questions and explain sz

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only few of my relatives know about my disease. i prefer not telling anyone else (neighbours,friends,colleagues at work) because mental disease in general and schizophrenia in particular is shame and i am afraid of stigma.

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I told some of my classmates who were now don’t talk to me anymore and try to avoid me.

There is a lot of stigma towards people with Sz.

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If I know someone well, I will tell them…when I was dating I always mentioned my mental illness…weeded out those that didn’t like it.

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Not really, I beat around the bush. Poeple dont notice anything different about me accept that I am 52 still living with my parents and no significant other or job.

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Do you think without media and movies people would have behaved like philosphers?

And your dates.