Is being over weight unattractive?

:hushed: I sympathetize with you ivery gained 20kg this year. I’m not sure what that is in pounds but it’s getting to me :cry:

Hugs to you I’m sure your husband loves every bit of you :blush:

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I was underweight for a long time.

Women also find it a turn off and I used to get told things like they didn’t want to snap me!

I actually like guys who are heavier. I’ve dated a couple. It’s nice to me.

It is subjective but yes, being very overweight is unattractive.

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Depends. There is rule 34 for it so more than a few someones likes it.

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I happen to like chubby women.

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what is this rule?

I’d tell you to Google it but in this case NO! DON’T DO THAT! DON’T EVEN THINK ABOUT IT! Just forget I mentioned it.

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:joy: LOL Who cares anyway. people like different things. do and be whatever you like!

Let’s just say it was a euphemism for something else.

It’s the rule that says if a thing exists, there’s porn for it.

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Attractive is subjective- Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder; however it maybe detrimental to ones health. And poor health is definitely UNATTRACTIVE.

No. But it’s important to observe dress sense. I know that sounds bad but you wouldn’t see me in a bikini. There’s overweight people who can wear bekinis and rock them but not me. I try to wear clothes that will be flattering for my figure.

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being overweight is not attractive for most people although one shouldn’t be striving for other people’s satisfaction but for its own.
I liked all this thing about body positive movement but recently i saw many obese women posting ā€œproud of my curvesā€ pictures and i personally think it is going off the rails - obesity shouldn’t be praised as well as anorexic looks. I mean…curves are curves…not a body fat.

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Yes, and first of all, obese or anorexic is not healthy. Overweight is not a problem if a person eats/drinks in moderation and tries to exercise at least once in a while. Being a couch potato on the other hand is profoundly unhealthy even for those who don’t have weight issues.

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I have a BMI of 28 and that puts me in the overweight category; however, I have a lot of muscle mass. The BMI’s classification and methodology is flawed and many experts have noted this.

The title of this thread should change to, ā€œIs having a high fat percentage unattractive?ā€.

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Different strokes for different folks.

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A normal body fat percentage is more attractive

And Oh by the way.
Everyone in the United States is Overweight.
I fit in perfectly :slight_smile:

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