Im too ugly for love and i feel depressed

I dont know why im still breathing. I have nothing going for me

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don’t be hard on yourself
It’s what is inside that counts
I’ve not found love but I don’t care
You need get yourself well and I hope you will meet someone special

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Do you need a hug? gives hug

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I just saw that on facebook lol :slight_smile:
You are probably not ugly at all… I am dealing right now with the fact, that i feel as the worst person on earth, full with bad emotions, so needed to be avoided by all even :frowning: … Even one guy here told me, that i sound like i have the devil on my shoulders… This is very hard too, i am scared and lonely too…
Try to get past this thing, me too i’ll try… You are not ugly, believe me!

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You’re still breathing, others aren’t that lucky. I’d put that in the win column to start with.

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Did you see a Dr for your depression?

Sounds like you may be verbally self harming yourself. Maybe you should bring that up with your therapist… maybe its depression, but something to heal from definately. You must love yourself! :heart:

I feel ugly as I have my photo on a few swiping apps but not that many people talk to me or even match

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Placing so much importance on beauty will make you depressed.

I doubt you are ugly. Most of us are just average and normal.

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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

Love that quote.

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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. If someone ever calls another person ugly its probably because theyre ugly inside. Did somone ever say that to you or something? You cant internalize other peoples issues. We all make mistakes and say things we shouldnt…i think you should distance youself from this kind of self debasement

Don’t let it make you feel that way, between the algorithm and ratio of guys spamming women, and other variables, apps can be brutal.

Dating today feels like solicitating for a job almost.

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The trouble is I am a smoker and have mental illness

Usually just the first is enough to put people off

I have it switched on for everybody and far more guys match than women

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Would it help to volunteer or work in a social position to get through a rough patch?

Yeah, you’re still breathing and probably have two arms and legs and you sound like you know what you want ( some people lack the sense to know what they want and need and go on suffering so ).

I think you should seriously consider making an effort to post in this thread:

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Never mind. After looking in thread I see that you tried. Try another one today!

Of course you have a lot going for you. We all feel better fly and depressed sometimes. I hope you feel better.

I posted a guided meditation on health and recovery.
Try listening to it.
It’s filled with positive affirmations.

No one’s ugly for love. Love isn’t necessarily romantic.

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