I'm pretty much more lonely than usual

And it ■■■■■■■ sucks big time cos I’m not used to it.

I started to get trigger feeling from a friend. We got on super easily. But then last night he was talking about all these things that made me very anxious.

Now idk what to do about me and him.

Wish I could explain it in more detail, but that makes me anxious too.

Dam what is this life.

Anyway.

How are your social lives?

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No social life here.

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I have no social life. :cry::cry::cry:

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I know. Loneliness cuts like a knife and leaves you numb. I’m just now beginning to feel drawn toward people.

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I have one friend IRL, and he has a busy life so we don’t hangout much. Other than that, zero friends and no girlfriend.

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Sorry to hear that guys. It’s not always easy when there is no social life.
I hope you can all cope okay nevertheless

That guy was my perfect friend I could imagine sleeping in bed with him and we wouldn’t even have sex.

But last night’s conversations with him were a bit too much for me and I’ve told him. :cry:

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Maybe it’s the hazy weather lol I’m getting some midsummer night fear of missing out anxiety feels lately

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Apart from living with my girlfriend i struggle to make new mates out there. Ive got a few left from years ago but i dont see them much becuase they live far away.
I wouldnt be able to handle the lonliness without my partner. Im lucky i got her.

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no real social life

to paranoid

i have one irl friend but he lives hours away

other than that its my treatment team and my mom

my dogs are my life

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Hopefully you will be okay :pray:

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Thanks miss :grin: doing okay just rethinking some things about life. My direction. What I wanna do. Maybe it’s a good thing lol summers the time to stir things up ain’t it

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I’m sorry. Ive been very lonely previously in my life and it’s so hard to deal with. I hope you find a way to make some friends. They’re really important for mental health in my opinion.

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I completely agree. I think humans are meant to have friends. If possible

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I agree. I think we’re social beings. Even if we can’t be with people we need the memory of them and love for them to stay sane I think lol say if someone were ona. Desert island…they’d still be thinking of their loved ones naturally I think

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I’m lonely IRL too but it’s my fault. I dont make any effort to make friends or find a girlfriend.

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Who needs a girlfriend when you got chocolate milk

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I’ve got 2 friends here in town and one outta state. 2 I see once every other week to every week. It’s on my schedule. I also socialize with others in groups and my care team. I’m shy and start friendships online for a few months before meeting in a public space. It’s worked 2 times. Not bad.

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The Master speaks wisely :pray:

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I have a dance event on sundays that I regularly go to and I hang out with people there. I’m good at acting normal believe it or not… i might have a girlfriend pretty soon but we’ll see :crossed_fingers:

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Ooh nice one. She’s gonna be a lucky lady. But most importantly there’s no rush, so whenever is right time, is right time.