I'm going to a wedding and idk anyone

I haven’t a clue what I’m gonna do yet.
I’ll see.

It’s about 60 people
In total
Any tips?

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Bring your anti anxiety meds,and try not to worry.It helped me on brothers wedding.:slightly_smiling_face:

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Thankyou Zoa I really appreciate that

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Are you going to the celebration afterwards?

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At one point I was so anxious about sitting with people,knowing I have MI,and at some point it bothered me.I went to toilet and took my Klonopin there.I felt better later.I hope you haven’t been sarcastic.

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Idk how I would survive that. I will def be around thou cos my sister might stay for it and she will be the one driving me home. It goes on until mifldgnight n they hired a dj. I will try to enjoy it. I think that’s important.

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It is mostly family, I would enjoy yourself if I were you.

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No not at all Zoa. I appreciate your support :slight_smile: really really :slight_smile:
Yes I may even be staying overnight in the wedding place so if it gets too much I may go to the bedroom n sleep it away or read a bit.

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@anon70049667 I don’t have anxiety meds but I like you telling me not to worry :slight_smile: it helps me.

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Thanks dude :slight_smile:
I know desert is nice sticky tofee pudding n custard

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I have a problem when theres more then few people are around me,crowd especially.That’s the reason I never go to big shop centers or green markets,unless I have too.When unions are happening,I always prepare my self few days before about how people may react if I freak out.

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Get up in the morning and go for a brisk walk that might help think positive and enjoy yourself

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My best mate is supposed to be getting married soon. I am kind of wondering if he is going to ask me to be best man.

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That would be so exciting to be best man. I’m sure you’d do a great job at it

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I agree with you shellys12, Thankyou :slight_smile:

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Yea I hate walking about in my town too.
Sorry to hear that you feel like that. At least you prepare for things like if you freak out that’s very proactive and useful

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Hey, I think it is a great idea to be able to withdraw to the bedroom. I do that at family get togethers when it is too overwhelming and I just come back when I’m a bit rested. Perhaps you can also inform someone (your sister?) that you are nervous and she can kind of keep an eye on you a bit, perhaps help you connect to people?

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Thanks Marian, yes it’s a two hour journey to get there, I’ll consider telling her my feelings. Because she is pretty supportive when I open up.
The trouble is I have a hard time connecting to people atm but I’ll just kind of try my best to keep my attitude positive.

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I’d try to stick with a family member. If you get overwhelmed going to your room is a good idea. If anyone asks you can just say you don’t feel well.

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Thankyou Pianogal! And yes Cool that sounds good, N it’s not like I’m lying severe anxiety is unwellness after all I just don’t need to bring that up wat the unwelnness .

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