I think my emotions are screwed up

My gpa bedridden on the inside I’m crying but my emotions are different. I just can’t accept the fact he’s going down hill. I always thought they would live forever I guess.

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I’m sorry to hear that. I have an elderly relative myself so I can guess what you’re going through.

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Can you talk to your grandpa about it?

Maybe he has some loving wise words of comfort to share with you.

Love and good wishes to you and your grandpa.:pray:t4:

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I wish I could he doesn’t even know who we are anymore. Drastic change in just a weeks time.

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So sorry to hear that. talk to some other family members, they are probably feeling the same things as you. Its completely normal to be upset by this. its not easy watching the ones we love deteriorate. The most you can do is be supportive and loving.

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I just kind of smirk it off like it’s not happening. I shouldn’t be feeling this way.

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oh I am so sorry your grandfather is getting bad…sad.

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I loved mine to he was special to me.

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I agree. This is very good advice. Is it possible to do this @Turtle43 ?

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Not really they are all mad at me about a loan. :cry:

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I’m sorry that you don’t have familial support in such a delicate situation, @Turtle43. I understand worrying about relatives. I had two elderly relatives pass this year, and I loved them very much. I couldn’t go to the funerals because I can’t walk well enough (bad knees). I missed my great grandmother’s funeral, too. It broke my heart. I hope you can make up with your family and get the support you need. (((Hugs)))

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Sorry you missed the funeral. I will to because of my social phobia.

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What ever you feel it’s ok…
You have right to be confused,you have sz…

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Thanks @zoa my mind just wants to blow it off like it’s not really happening when I should be crying I guess.

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I can’t cry due to meds…
And once in five years that I cry,I get headache…
Don’t worry.

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Denial can sometimes be a healthy coping mechanism protecting the mind from what it can’t yet accept…

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