It’s about a girl. She is about 35 years old, blonde, short hair etc etc. I am 30. I’ve seen her in my neighborhood every day or two days. She seems alone, i’ve seen her only with her friend(another girl) I have seen her for 1 year or more almost every day. Should i present myself to her and ask for her phone number? Also i want to add that she doesn’t work or have a job. Please vote
I think it would be super weird to ask her for her number before you even get to know her. Introduce yourself, chat with her if she’s up for it, say hi when you see her around. Then after a while when she can establish you’re not a creep, offer your number. Don’t ask for hers.
It’s so hard to make new friends now that I’m not in college or so personable like I used to be but talk to her, get to know the basics of her, and then be like “well hey if ur ever bored u should give me a call, we can blah blah blah” and leave it at that. Don’t sweat her but yea I’m excited for u this could be a new friend. Don’t trip up on it with anxiety and when it comes to it just say u have depression n anxiety
Start with a friendly smile and hello and leave it with that.
Do this every time you see her, for a few weeks, then work up gradually to her name.
She will show you in her body language when she’s comfortable enough for more.
Don’t rush things, don’t push things, and if you really like her, don’t give up if she says no the first time- just back off and keep saying hello and smile.