Sorry, this is anti-climatic. I went to my depression group today. I’m 53, there’s a girl in their who must be in her twenties. She’s very good looking. But she has self-esteem issues. She doesn’t think she has anything to offer anybody in a relationship. She seems alright in general though. I think she just broke up with her boyfriend. When it came time for me to check-in,I just basically said I need to get out more and be around people more. Group usually ends at three but today it ran over but I excused myself at 5 minutes after and told them I had to leave. So I’m down the hall and the hot girl comes out and catches up with me. She says,“Hey let me give you my phone number and if you want to go out and do something then give me a call”. Standing next to her, she is very petite and even sexier than I thought. But she doesn’t see me like that. She is just being friendly. I’ll have to think about it, but I’m glad I made an impression on somebody enough so that they want to do something with me.
good on you nick never to late to be a player!
Thats awesome!!!
That’s great, nick. I wish she was ten or twenty years older .
Sorry, I’m in a pissy mood. I know you’re an upstanding guy.
It is a good ethical question… How to proceed?
I think it would do you good to open up to someone. You’ll get to see the person behind the pretty face.
I will play it by ear. I would not go into it to try and make something happen romantically.
woohoo ! Atta’ boy nick77. I think you’re right in trying to just be friends and see what happens.
She might just look young and in fact she is at her thirties or forties. You should have a try.
Swagmeister Nick gets the girl.
Joking, but really that’s great. It can be nice talking to new people sometimes.
WOOHOO!!! that is great, Nick!
Hey 77nick77,
Her type is easy as poop homes. Just treat her like she’s a princess, and don’t be too conservative for too long or the poor girl will think she’s defective. And you can honestly prolly get away with saying something like “…I’m just askin’ for a little help is all.” lol for real. But her type will never come onto you because she thinks she’s worthless and that you don’t even want her. Yo it happens, I was almost in a relationship with a 50 year old widow a couple months ago and I’m 24. And don’t act like a sloppy model like you just hit the lotto!
Well yeah, I was like that in my drug days. And worse occasionally. This girl seems genuinely nice and trusting though, not someone to scheme on.
Well you need a scheme man, and as long as the motivation is of a good nature a scheme is fine, if you’re actually interested in a relationship. Like I’m just sayin’ that stuff doesn’t just happen. Doors can be opened but you have to walk through them. Just remember to treat her like a princess.
Well what refreshing news, Nick! Congrats!
And hey nick, I’ve been following your posts for a while now. You’ve really helped me out in the past. I just joined like yesterday but I’ve been reading this site for like over a year now. You’re the guy that used to be a park ranger right? Yeah you inspired me to give the world another chance.
Wow, I’m really glad that I helped in some way. Yeah, I was a park ranger.
This is very cool news… some company and a friend. You know… you are a very impressive person and I hope this girl and you can start a good friendship.
I am happy you found a girl, even if it is just a friendship. But just don’t become obsessive with the girl. I knew a 48 yer odl man in Idaho, who lives there, and he stalked me when I was only twelve. O_O
Thanks. But I’ve never done it before and I don’t see it happening now.
okay that is good XD But I really am happy for you :3