I met my new therapist today

I didn’t like her at all. I’m going to have to keep looking. She was very condescending

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My therapist was condescending at first and then I continued seeing her, she toned down, now I can’t remember how she was condescending. Something about her and I didn’t click. Then we grew on each other

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That sucks, I’m sorry. :frowning: I hope you can find a good therapist who you click well with. It took me long time to find a good therapist. I finally found a nice one, I just can’t afford to see her right now.

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Yeah. I pay $25 per session with my insurance so my plan is to see someone once per month.

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Wow, that’s a great deal! I think mine is around $40 per session.

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I’m so sorry honey, I hope you can find someone who treats you with respect.

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Thanks @Leaf. A problem I’m running into is people are refusing to treat me because they say they don’t treat thought disorders. I guess I have to stick with county mental health

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Schizophrenia is a thought disorder? I thought dementia was a thought disorder, and schizophrenia was a psychotic disorder???

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It’s considered a thought disorder. https://www.goodtherapy.org/blog/psychpedia/thought-disorder

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they don’t want to work for a living or what? Didn’t they get into this type of work to help people? I’m so sorry you’re in this position. I hope county has someone for you.

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The lady I saw today was one of two female choices I have. The other lady, I’m told, is very hard on people. I was told to avoid her.

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Are you uncomfortable with men?

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Very. I’ve been abused by countless men.

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Well, I guess you can try the lady that’s has the bad reputation. Maybe you will get along with her even though others don’t. What a frustrating situation you are in.

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I might try her. I’m thinking it over

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I don’t have a thought disorder and I have sz, my therapist was always trying to manipulate my thoughts until recently she just let me have peace in my head. I feel like she was doing it on purpose because I was non compliant and wanted me to go psychotic.

With your new therapist I would write out something that introduces you so she doesn’t make any assumptions. County places, they don’t know who they are dealing with. And I was treated poorly at first, I felt like I was being sucked up and my whole personality would change. I couldn’t follow her and it didn’t feel natural that’s why I say she was condescending too, it’s like she hated me. Now she changed.

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You’re right. And I’m sorry you went through that.

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Unfortunately you really have to shop around for good mental health professionals. Some are good some are bad.

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You’re a smart girl with a great read on people! I’m sorry it wasn’t the right fit. When can you see the other female?

Do you only like in-person therapy? I know some places Skype.

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@FlyingPurplePeopleMeeter I might try online if my insurance covers it

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