I have had my worst concentration ever this last eek. Can’t read a sentence. Phoned my mum to talk about this. She is going on holiday tomorrow.
Anyway instead of being sympathetic she had a go at me, making out I was trying to sabotage her holiday. Borderline bitch at times.
I quickly ended the conversation but looking back at it my mum was well out of order.
I hate my mum as well. Just get rid of her from your life if they cause you stress. I can’t wait for my mum to pass away. That’s how I feel. Just ignore her and focus on the positives.
I don’t hate her and certainly don’t want her to die, but she does do some stuff that is counter productive.
Yeh I know you love your mum, but if she isn’t understanding about your schizophrenia then she should learn that treating you like this is obviously having a negative impact on your health, causing you long lasting stress. Stress is key to acknowledge with schizophrenia. Schizophrenia =stress. People obviously don’t understand this about schizophrenia, so they keep building stress against you. If they do understand that stress is bad for schizophrenia and keep giving you stress, then they are nothing in my eyes. I’m sure my mum knows stress is bad for me, yet she keeps causing it in a similar way your mum has to you. So I couldn’t care less about my mum.
Sorry, @Jimbob. Family can be rough to deal with sometimes.
That sucks it went down like that @Jimbob. I had a similar incident with my mom this summer. I pretty much cut her out of my life. I’m so much better off now, being around her just brought me down.
I’m glad you keep things in perspective and love your mom. She was wrong, but she’s bound to be wrong sometimes because she’s human. I hope your relationship is mostly good. 
My mom is a duck all the time! 
Wow … your Mum and mine should meet! They’d have a rollicking good time bitching about how we’re sabotaging their happiness.