I Let Go of Him

Did I make the right decision?
I feel like I’ve been stabbed over and over again, and I am not happy anymore. He keeps on beating me up with hurtful words, and I can’t take it anymore.

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Leave him behind and don’t look back…it might hurt right now with him being newly gone, but you will be so much better off with someone who doesn’t abuse you. I’m sorry you are sad.

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All the more reason you made a good decision

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Letting go is always painful…atleast for a bit… but holding on can be toxic with vastly more pain…

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Change is hard. Even when that change is a good thing. We like the things we’re comfortable with, even when they hurt, because it’s easier to stay with what’s familiar.

Congrats on leaving. That took a lot of strength and courage.

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The initial stages after a break up are always the most painful. In time you will heal over the wounds. If he is making you hurt right now, it will likely get worse if you get back with him

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Some relationships are just not worth the misery they make.

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I always tell my teenage daughters…

“You might have to kiss a few frogs before you find your Prince.” :wink:

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It’s best to avoid people that hurt you like that. You will find others that will support you in time.

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Thank you guys for not letting me feel that I am alone.

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yeah it is good to get toxic people out of your life, it’s not good for either of you to stay dysfunctional but still it does hurt.

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