No offense, but thats crazy. I have no debt. No income though besides ssi. I’m looking into computer science. I’m worried about incuring loans around 10-20k max. Probably less for a degree. Not sure I can do it. If I fail, I have to pay it back. I would get financial aid since I’m poor and it might even be free. Software developers make 50-80k starting off in California.
Can I ask what was the job? I’ve lost my job due to relapse and took me a year to come back to job market. Have you also changed meds? I’ve come back on meds who has more side effects but I am able to work on them
My meds have not been stable for the last 6 months. I am having to cope with so many changes that I don’t even know what is helping and what is causing me problems with side effects
@Joker you did whaf you have to do with your old job. You were so sick you nearly died. Quitting that job saved your life. You might go into a lot of debt now, but at least you are alive.
Can you go on the meds that you were stable on them? I mean I don’t want to sound harsh, but it usually requires 1 year of being stable to return to job market for us SZ. I would recommend to go back to live with the relatives if you not planning to find a job soon. That’s why I did and I already put then in financial difficulties, the longer you stay the harder is gonna get. Sometimes you have to start from a step 1
I am just starting to get myself tied up in knots about what the future holds as it’s scary not knowing how I can support myself and I cannot see a reasonable way out of this situation
I cannot live with relatives. I have a flat with a mortgage to pay and I cannot afford to sell as that costs a lot of money, so in effect I would have to default on my payments and then they would re-possess my flat worst case