I have a new unusual belief and I like it!

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Thanks :slight_smile:

I don’t know how to trust when it comes to these kind of relationships

So I guess I found a topic to talk about in therapy

Thnku

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I also struggle to believe that but I keep repeating the mantra ‘it’s not real!’.

Don’t know if that helps.

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Yea I use mantras too they can be effective for sure

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The problem I have is intrusive thoughts idk if learning trust will get rid of them.

But like u say

Maybe worth a shot to see if it helps :))

And yea I got problems and I project insecurity onto my partners from past

The real problem with that is it becomes a self fulfilling prophesy right.
Where I am the reason for the destruction of relationship
@rogueone

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I’d say just relax. Take your time. There isn’t anything to be afraid of. You’ll meet the right guy. it’s all about having faith. Like @rogueone said, trust is important, too. Faith and trust go hand in hand.

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Thanks Crazydiamond you’re really sweet.
Trust and faith
Two words I need to look into

I think I might take a little break from the forum so I can focus on my self help books and get therapy sorted. When I am active on forum I tend to spend a lot of time here, which I need to reduce if I want to work on therapy things.

But moderators please don’t suspend or silence me as I don’t know if I can actually do it. Haha.

Anyways, hope you’re well Crazydiamond.

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i have talked to the spirits of those who i believed died. some were just ghosts fleeting things. Diane though my fiancecwho died in 2013. i spoke to her and got words of encouragement for a year. then she stopped talking. i was hospitalized and she became amusing. brazillian nuns had cut off her legs. she was a prostitute in a strange city. her death was faked.

then she became sane again. she was like this in life sonetimes. showed me her face as if she were still in bed watching tv at night. then she became accusitory. she was like this in life. then she simply stopped talking.

there is someone who talks ABOUT her but i have no idea who that is.

maybe i sound crazy. a little mad can be good though.

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This! It might feel like you are high on drugs, or in hell. All delusions come with a crash because reality hits.

It’s better to dwell on reality and try to build a life from what you have. I try to be content with what I have.

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fight the power. be the king of your realm. accept the absurd. embrace it. take your mind peoples for a ride into the depths of your mind. btw, f…k suffering. that is bs. get out of there. you’re buying the wrong grosseries at the store.

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Okay hey you can believe what you want keep in mind every known property has its boundaries as your boundaries are bound by theirs

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Thanks I think you make a good point. I think this is what @crazydiamond444 was trying to get at too

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Lol… What do you mean!?!

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I agree with you Skinny.

But some prevent you from living my life fully. This is where one needs to be careful.

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