I have a crush on a family friend

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To get married.

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Haha like me. :flushed:

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Except that I get nowhere.

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I guess I should give up dating :100:

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I used to get nowhere too but now I gave up, not even trying. I donā€™t want to get rejected after they find out that I have sz, donā€™t work, stay in bed most of the time etc. She thinks I am functional, that I work and go to university, as I hide reality from her and from other family members, simetimes I lie for my advantage. Though recently I told my cousin I have sz and that I canā€™t work, maybe she told her.

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Do u fancy her, Aziz

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Used to but not anymore. Its hard to know my true feelings from erotomania.

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Nope. Guess again. Giving up things that make life worth living only leads to regrets later down the road.

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Also I find it wrong dating the sister of my cousinā€™s husband. I mean its normal in my arabic culture but still. My parents want me to date the daughter of my fatherā€™s friend but I never connected with her since I got sz. We used to study together before sz but thats it.

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There are a group of sons and daughters of family friends around my age I have wished for a partnership with any of them, but not happened.

No matter what I have tried in the past, no luck.

I have given up dreaming about partnership with someone else

Being living on my own now for nearly 6 years, and not sure I can tolerate another person in my personal space

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Honestly there will be more regrets if I go ahead with it.

But thanks for the encouragement itā€™s really kind of ya Andrey

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Guys are not very complicated.

Just ask him out (or more if that is what youā€™re looking for), heā€™ll probably say yes, itā€™s rare for guys to turn down an opportunity unless they have a good reason too.

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I would if I felt comfortable with the whole idea but I donā€™t. Cos I donā€™t feel good enough for him.

I donā€™t want to test that theory out when it feels so real thereā€™s no point in testing it out.

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This could happen no matter who it is. Just use grounding exercises to give yourself a better chance. I say go for it!

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Thanks for the encouragement but I think itā€™s a bad idea lol.

I have this thing where I usually loose interest after a while so Iā€™ll just wait it out anyhow

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Mae, if you had to marry a monster, with just three redeeming features, what would they be?

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Three redeeming features, do you mean 3 features that make the monster like able after all?

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The three things you want in a man

Assuming all men are monsters :clown_face:

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are you thinking that i think all men are monsters?

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Nope youā€™re overthinking me. Iā€™m trying to say, if you couldnā€™t control everything else, what three things would you select from.

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