no idea how I did it. I used to be fun and outgoing, was in good shape because I played lots of sports. all my girlfriends were really attractive. now they are all way out of my league. haha glory days. in a way it makes me content, looks aren’t as important to me anymore though. but i’ll probably be single for the rest of my life, I think. im ok with that.
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Have you got any photos
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of me or my girlfriends? I really don’t. I never took pictures. but there are probably a lot of old photos they have, that are floating around. basically I started to withdraw and go on adventures and travel solo for a few years. I haven’t talked to most of my old friends in over 10 years. that was also before I was diagnosed. just this past march one of my friends had a wedding and I saw some old friends, even one women I briefly dated for a time. we talked but I didn’t really try to spark anything up because she lives in Cincinnati and I don’t like to travel to the city. if I find someone it will probably be here in town or maybe my hometown 10 miles away. I don’t really go out much anymore, it’s easier to meet women when you’re younger I think, I don’t go to bars anymore either.
@Lifer the good old days where everything was easier in some ways and worse in others
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I agree with that the older you get the harder it gets
Especially if you are like me and don’t fancy internet dating
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I’ve never tried internet dating either. but funny you say that cause at the wedding, the bride and groom started dating over the internet. they did know each other before that. they were just both in the same city, young proffessionals, and were looking for a serious relationship, and they hit it off when they went out for a date.
Yes I heard lots of people find someone that way
I don’t like the idea of going on terrible dates and I think you’d need to go on a few till you meet someone I just don’t think I’d get lucky
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@Lifer @shellys12 I met the guy I’m talking to on a talking app and we went from friends to feeling more
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yeah I made some mistakes when I was younger. basically I had a broken heart from one of my previous relationships and continued to hold a flame for this girl after it was over. I took me years to get over it, but I continued to date and never really fell in love with my new girlfriends. now im kinda back to normal, no longer have feelings for her, and have moved on. that will probably help me if I date again, that and im no longer scared of commitment like I used to be.
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@Lifer I’m glad 
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I had lookers back in the day, always had pretty GF’s, old age has caught up and as soon as I quit drinking the ladies disappeared, Been alone a long time now, will finish life alone
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@JustTrish you are beautiful !!
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I used to give a ■■■■ about how I looked and my weight etc. Just seems like a lot of unnecessary work. I don’t care at all. The last 2 years I’ve aged about 20 years.
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Awwww, thank you. It’s an old pic. You’re too kind!
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