Could it be psychosis??I already have one child with her,but I couldn’t stop thinking that she had cheated from me in the past when we are together and also might cheat in the future.There are some signs like I remember she called a guy and talked to him and she went out of the house with a “gay” for close to three hours.Now we already have child and I provide for them
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Having male friends doesn’t mean she’s cheating. I’m not saying she’s not, but people are allowed to have friends.
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I agree with @Moon, having male friends doesn’t automatically mean she’s cheating.
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Something sounds fishy about you being worried and her on the phone in a healthy relationship there would be no question in your mind.
That being said maybe she’s responding to your paranoia and the fishiness is her managing your paranoia not hiding a relationship.
I dont know its a tough one to make a call on.
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My husband doesn’t even allow me to join meetup groups or meditation groups that have men participating. I’m only allowed to go out with all female groups of people. It’s frustrating because I’ve never cheated on him and have no intention of doing so in the future. I’m on his side. Please talk to your dr. It’s probably paranoia.
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Yea,I am feeling insecure and tbh our relationship is unstable,not rock bottom but we quarrel and get angry at each other often
She really may be cheating but the solution isn’t to stop her from cheating the solution is to figure out how to have have a meaningful interaction with her where you no longer fight and offer each other honest truth even if you do have a child together maybe breaking up is the right thing to do (extreme solution and your choice)
I am feeling insecure,I mean she can cheat if she likes to and I cannot do anything but I would feel very bad and unhappy.I hope it didn’t happen and will not happen
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Shouldn’t feel trapped in a relationship
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You need to talk to a therapist. This is unhealthy.
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