I feel completely worthless. All i wanted was love and to be accepted my bullies took all that from me. I want to feel loved. Just onse im scared to go out scared to be seen i have hideous eyes with bags under them. Can someone tell me how i can get rid of them. I dont want to be seen.
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How do i get rid of them
You have nice eyes. Not sure what you are talking about.
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I’m really sorry you seem to be going through such a hard time. I think your eyes look normal to me though. Sometimes it’s about challenging our perceptions that improves our self worth. I hope things get better for you…
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I dont like the bags i feel like a freak because at my age i shouldnt be having bags i feel it makes me look old
Im not going through a hard time. I just dont have clue how to feel better. Im scared i have problems.
They don’t look bad at all. You know it is normal. Pictures you see where people don’t have them are because they have Been photo airbrushed out.
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I have bags under my eyes, always have, and I’ve grown to love them, they fit me, and I’m still pretty young. There’s nothing wrong with the way you look, it’s your perspective which is wrong. Be easy on yourself.
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I think youve been somewhat disstressed recently. You need to try and be kinder to yourself. Take care of your self by doing some things you enjoy.
If you have lots of worries trying writing them all down. Then come back to it later and see if you can look at them another way… Are you ugly or are you just not a super model like everyone else?
Have the bullies ruined you beyond repair or are you just having a rough patch?
Do you have a support worker or therapist you can talk to? I feel like youve been really struggli g recently.
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But i feel like a terrible person
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Hello sorry that you feel hideous. But if it makes you feel better I do think that bags under eyes suit some people in a good way.
Feelings are not facts.
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No one will notice them.
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I’m So sorry you’re suffering like that. I’ve felt the same way and occasionally still do. I don’t think your eye you posted a picture of looks hideous. It’s normal. I have bags around my eyes too. I just use some foundation to cover the dark rings I have if I’m feeling insecure about it.
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I had voices 24/7 tell me I’m ugly inside and out.
They said I’m not allowed to go outside because someone might see me and I’m to ugly to be seen.
They made me feel ugly I guess and suppressed etc
My boyfriend took a photo of me yesterday and I looked hideous.
I had nose hairs n pimple up one nostril and red around mouth and nose .
Wrinkly and yeah it wasn’t a pretty sight.ha ha ha
Thankfully I’m a believer in inner beauty and people have different taste.
There are all sorts of strippers out there because there are all sorts of taste although barbie look does be most popular.
I will age naturally.
Some people might uglify you maliciously in their eyes and project that onto you.
Most important is to be a beautiful person.
There are some “good looking “ people who are ugly because they are ugly people inside.
What looks good is not always good.
It can be fake .
Hope you will feel loved by your loved ones because that can make you feel beautiful in their eyes and maybe in your own eyes.
One has ones moments.
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Depends some people get it genetically others can have it because blood pools when their awake. You can try chilling out and sleeping. But keep in mind beauty is subjective so people might not understand why you feel that way about your self.
But i hate my face shape it looks ugly
I get what you mean. I have had that too. Its getting to the point where im becoming agoraphobic. Too scared to go out
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love yourself. there is a song from ace of base that says:
No one’s gonna drag you up
To get into the light where you belong
go for self
life is simple
go for what you like
espace from what you dont
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My face shape is not great either, i am attempting to loose weight to help deal with that.
anyway,
what matters is the personality, that is what shines through into your face.
Having said that, knowing i can do something about my face, I will, if possible