I feel bad when there is drama and problems around me. Who else?

Do you get overwhelmed by the problems around you? In fact, i am very stressed, anxious and paranoid person… The meds help very few on this :confused: … BUt i have ill friends who are desperate and i get very paranoid when i listen to problems. I am freezed and blocked in my activity in fact so i cant help much no one, but i feel very guilty about it :frowning: .
Its the same around my mother… She cries a lot, is with her bad nerves now and i get very paranoid when its like this… Why i am like this??? Anyone else who get very overwhelmed by the smallest problems too??? I need a lot of positivity now in my life, but i guess the life its not only this…
I also get paranoid when the others shout at me or criticize me… Idk why i went so sensible. My psychosomatics goes to the roof when theres some tragedy or problems and they are quite painful. I lose even the ability to stand on my feet by fear :confused: … I’ll try to fight, but yeap, i cant deal with problems…

Yes I do. And it makes me feel like I can’t function at all.

Avoid them then?

Hugs))) @Anna1 15555

I see, ever… Yeah, it looks like i need always just some positive things around me, but i have it hard too… I talk only to two ill friends and their episodes are quite scary and they always call to me when at their worst… While me, in the evening, i have my heart pounding from fear, my legs which cant hold me, all shaky and very, very paranoid…
MY mother is the same, lately she keeps crying for everything and is all hysteric… But i feel guilty that sometimes i cant help, i live myself as a sinner even… Idk, i’ll pray, that one day ill have the ability to take the negative things easily…

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Well, they are friends, its hard to leave them like this… I avoided yesterday my friend but i feel guilty now…This precise friend listened my complaining too for ten years… Now i stopped this, but now its me who is very anxious lol…

I’m the same at the moment.

Well I left my toxic friends and now feel much better, idk about your friends but mine were selfish and never listened to my problems, they just want me to listen to them and they’re manipulative taking advantage of me. One has social anxiety disorder, another depression and another borderline personality disorder. They also get me in trouble. If your friends are giving you paranoia and making your sz worse, I would avoid them, no need to feel guilty, your health is much more important.

I see, aziz… Yeap. I really get very paranoid sometimes with some of these people, but i’ll see… I have my mother too, who always have problems so its tough here…

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Drama is soooo draining-- emotionally, spiritually, and mentally, @Anna1.

Stay above it and focus on your health.

Best of luck :sunflower:

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Yes I also get upset easily with others dramas. Especially around people who are crying. I feel so uncomfortable with that. Like I don’t know what to do.

And yes I get paranoia around toxic people like my mother in law, and also when my husband gets stressed and sometimes paranoid then it feeds my paranoia too.

I have the same problems. And people say I bother them, because people won’t leave me alone.

Yeah, maybe even the normies feel bad around drama too, its universal if I can say so… but I was very tough on this for a long time too… I was completely freezed for a time…

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