I don't talk much

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I don’t talk much because I don’t see many people. When do see people the amount I talk can vary quite a lot.

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yeah it relaxes you.relaxes your mind.gives me amnisia a bit but thats alright.its sideffect.

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i don’t talk much either… i can listen well though… but bringing up topics to talk about is hard for me…

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I also don’t talk much. I sometimes might talk about things that trouble me.

I’m not a good listener either cause I don’t have a good concentration.

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lol yea… my concentration isn’t all that either but i have the feeling i can listen well for a bit to people… as long as it doesn’t get too complex…

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I’m sort of ok when its one on one and not a long conversation.

When I’m in a group of people I’m totally lost.

Complex conversations makes my mind wander in other directions and everything goes blank. It wasn’t like that before. I use to be able to philosophy a lot about life and loved to talk. Now I’m so blunt.

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yea same here… groups give me the creeps. i feel really bad in groups. Cause i can’t concentrate and it’s like overload on my brain…

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Exactly… That’s how it feels.

What I would do when I’m in a group of people is to look at someone who’s talking for a short while, then I’d look at someone else so that they can hopefully think that I’m tuned in to the conversation…

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I don’t talk much Because I don’t know much :pensive: :penguin: Oh well,…, and also because of my low self-esteem :pensive: :penguin:

I wish I was clever like albus Dumbledore

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oh yea, that’s a good idea… I usually isolate myself from the group if possible… but it doesn’t happen often that i find myself in groups anymore since i stay at home 99% of the time.

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Same here. Where it normally happens is during family gatherings but we haven’t had one for a long time because of covid restrictions.

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I struggle with both poverty of speech and poverty of thought. It’s really hard to deal with.

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33

well that sucks. I think out loud.

I’m always wanting to engage. or change status quo, or stagnant interaction.

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yea same… but with the family they don’t have high expectations of me to join in the convos so much…
but yea we also don’t have family gatherings now with the covid restrictions.

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What time is it now there by you? Here it is 19:40 and almost time for my meds and bedtime

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it’s 18:40 here now… soon i go watch tv and then take my evening meds and fall asleep watching the tv =p

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So you are 1 hour behind us.

I remember the days when I use to fall asleep infront of the tv. It’s a lovely way to fall asleep. Now I barely watch tv

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i lay in my mum’s bed when watching tv and usually when the show is over she suddenly says “it’s over”… and then i’m like eeeeek and realise i had fallen asleep and then i go to my own bed.

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:joy: I bet it’s hard to get up and go to your own bed after falling asleep in your mom’s bed.

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hehehe~~ yea… it is… it’s comfy and warm and then suddenly have to go to my own bed. But i really like my pillow in my bed so usually i’m glad to go to my own bed.

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