Thoughts?
Sex is too complicated. It involves ppl
And there’s often differences in preferences in during sexual activity.
Plus I don’t want a boyfriend
What is your preference, if you feel comfortable to say.
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Me too. Unfortunately I am married and still not prefer sex. I was engaged in risky sexual activities in the past due to bipolar and now lost interest in any kind of sex due to it not being normal throughout my life. If only I was normal. Now I want to live life the way I like it and it doesn’t matter if sex is not there.
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I prefer masturbation because you can do it just how you like without compromise.
And sex only feels best if its with someone you trust anyway, which I don’t.
I mean like someone who always sees you as number 1 in every way, which I find unrealistic
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I was very addicted and still am little bit to masturbating and sometimes I feel like I need to stop it and sometimes I feel like it’s ok once in a while. I used to quit and start on and off. But maybe I need to learn to make it part of life with using it in moderation as long as it does not affect other parts of life.
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I think once or even twice a day is maybe moderate. Once in the morning and once at night.
Idk
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I feel three to four times a week or something is ok for guys. Not sure about girls and maybe you are right. I would like to limit watching things and doing it. And not get wild thoughts when seeing things in real as well.
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Yea that’s a difference about me I don’t really get wild thoughts when I see sexy guys.
I just think, wow he’s cute or wow he is sexy but I don’t get sexual fantasies, at least not much.
I wonder if that is generally a difference between men and woman. Not in every case since we are all individuals but In terms of generally
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As I said admiring sexy women was worse before due to bipolar and now it’s under control and just like to be a better person in general.
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Yea I want to be a better person too. It’s a good point. Not saying we are bad atm.
But self development is a beautiful thing I guess
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I like both. Sometimes mazzing gets a bit dull so i feel like having actual sex. And then other times im having so much sex that i just want to chill and have a mazz haha.
Or there is the sweet middle ground that i have with my girlfriend that we do sometimes where they learn how to please you very well with only hands on eachother.
Sorry im a horny dude lol.
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Yea hands are sexy haha.
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Coool topic, idc been with prostitutes but am refraining from them
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I sometimes wish I was a man lol. It’s just a transient thing though
Just to experience sex as a man. Haha
I like guys who like pervy sex hehe. With freaky girls.
And they need to be decent though.
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Abnormal sex is a form of perversion
I don’t mean against the law but just abnormal
pervert
verb
/pəˈvəːt/
distort or corrupt the original course, meaning, or state of (something).
“he was charged with conspiring to pervert the course of justice”
Similar:
distort
warp
corrupt
subvert
twist
bend
abuse
divert
deflect
misapply
misuse
misrepresent
misinterpret
misconstrue
falsify
garble
lead (someone) away from what is considered natural or acceptable.
“Hector is a man who is simply perverted by his time”
Similar:
corrupt
lead astray
deprave
make degenerate
debauch
debase
warp
vitiate
pollute
poison
contaminate
demoralize
noun
/ˈpəːvəːt/
- a person whose sexual behaviour is regarded as abnormal and unacceptable.
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Ummm i’m the same way. Pre diagnoses it was a totally different story but. It is what it is.
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Those are some hot words in that context lol!
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I used to toggle the ole joystick 3 to 5 times a day. Mania can do that 
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I used to play a lot as well with the joystick. Lol… I am confused AF as to why it all happened and stuff. Now I am crawling away from it and try to be normal.
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I want to be with a woman but i am afraid of sex bc i am not very good at it and i have ED 
it makes me feel very insecure tbh
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