A person I can talk to, without judgement, a person I can have fun with, and be silent when I need to. A person that is there and doesn’t run away because I have a mental illness. It’s not about being needy, they usually need me, it’s not the other way around. Wish I could be more needy, would make my life more easy for sure.
Well there is the need to be needed, which can attract needy friends.
Minnii,
I’m in the same boat. I’m hoping someday to find someone. I always wonder if there is someone out there who will be able to overlook the problems I have in my life; SZ being the biggest one.
Good luck, @Minnii
I used to want it, but I don’t even dream about it anymore.
Because what seems wonderful isn’t always what suits me.
That is the reason I don’t have it and my life is going ok without it.
I agree with @Turnip, boundaries are a must for any healthy relationships.
I hope to find love soon. Someone I can spend my life with. So far all I got is teenage love. My boyfriend doesn’t know what to do because I’m not into the touchy feeling stuff. He knows I’m schizophrenic but don’t know how to handle it. Hopefully I find someone that can understand me.
Loving isn’t so great. Love many, you can lose many too. That’s why I’m alone.
@minnii you are beautiful and intelligent and perfect in many ways. You’ll have your pick <3