I said to my brother you need to quit the drinking so he told me to shut the f up. Then I told him you s t f up and he started throwing things at me. I said he is abusive and no wonder he’s struggling to find a girl as he needs to quit drinking. I called the police and they asked him to stay at a hotel. He decided the hotel wasn’t good enough so he’s back home. He said I’m a mental sh*t and he’s the one who came to see me in hospital for three weeks so I should appreciate that.
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Don’t feel bad. You did the right thing by calling the cops.
Your brother really needs to quit the drinking!
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Good that you called the police. Sorry that happened…is there anyone there to help you?
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my partner but he doesn’t live with me my mum is upset I call the police. And on the other hand he calling me a ■■■■■
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I know it’s hard dealing with an alcoholic my mom is one. We are currently into it at the moment. She always trashed talks me when she gets drunk.
I know how you feel it sucks.
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Verbal abuse is NOT cool at all.
Have a big hug on me.
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I am sorry, Ish. That sucks
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I understand that you felt stressful as your mom wasn’t happy that you called the police. But you did the right thing as your brother had tended to use violence against you.
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I’m always walking on eggshells I feel he has a personality issue of some kind.
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Living with an alcohol is a unique form of misery. Tell your brother about alcoholics anonymous. You can’t make him go, but you can point him in the right direction.
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I have a feeling he has some sort of personality disorder but I can’t say for sure.
Did he throw the mental health card on you when the police came?
If he didn’t, he at least has some restraint.
Not that I’m trying to condone his physical violence.
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He didn’t say those things when the police came but muttered *blitch under his breath when they told him to go to a hotel for the night.
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Are you sitting back at home with him all day long? Or do you or him have to study or work?
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He goes to work and works from home two days a week tomorrow and Friday
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Do you think you can have a good conversation with him about it or is it too soon?
I’m planning to go to work from where my partner lives will be a journey though.
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Yes, ask your partner if you could shack up with him for a while.
Your brother is out of control, and he could make you relapse.
I’m sorry for you and your brother.
He clearly needs help
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Yes I feel sorry for him too but I tried to tell him he needs to quit drinking and he told me to ■■■■ and my mum told me it’s the way I said it though no excuse for throwing things
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No it’s no excuse.
Physical violence is not ok
You did the right thing @anon25873142
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