I really tried to get through to him but when I did bring it up he tried to throw stuff at me and called me a mental piece of ■■■■. As time went on I started caring less and less and I don’t do that cos I hate him. I do it to protect my mental peace.
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It sounds like you need to take care of yourself; he’s not ready to change if that’s his reaction to your concerns. Are you safe? Him throwing stuff and calling you names is abusive, and that’s not okay.
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My mum intervened when he was throwing stuff so I wasn’t harmed. But I did say he was abusive towards his girlfriend no wonder she didn’t stick around. I think that really hurt him. To be honest after what he said … I’m really done caring.
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I understand that. There is someone in my family that I feel nothing but disdain for, and it all started with drinking. I will never be okay towards that person again, and I won’t pretend. I barely say hi, and only if manners dictate it’s necessary. Alcohol, drugs, etc really take their toll on the addict and the people around them.
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I had called the police on him when he started throwing stuff. Then as the police asked him to spend the night at a hotel he said ■■■■■ under his breath before leaving. He came back that same night. Which is what the police told him not to do.
Yeah he doesn’t seem to see it effects others … He doesn’t care so why should I.
Stay away from him because that all active alvoholics are bad and evil. I was evil 21 years ago when I was on alcohol. Now Iv been sober for 21 years. Keep away from active alcoholics and drug abusers they are very very bad company.
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