I am undecided

my friends want me to go with them to a nightclub latin night with a group of people I don’t know this friday night. i will feel awkward, last time i was in a nightclub was in 2019 and girls told me why i don’t smile i look sad, i give bad vibes apparently

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Give it a shot. What’s the worst case scenario

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I’d go @anon67051439. 15

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I think you should go. Would be nice to get out there. If it is too much you can leave early. I hope you have a good time if you do decide to go

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i forget my pills and get psychotic there lol also even if i remember taking my pills they make me sleepy and apathetic and not talk

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Go! You might have fun!

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also i don’t want to drink there, everyone is going to drink

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Be strong, do your own thing

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I think you should not go……only if it is overwhelming.

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i wish i was off meds, the meds make me very tired when i take them at 11pm and the event is 10pm-3am

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maybe i can take a caffeine pill with the meds before the event, i need to practice my spanish before going lol de donde eres tu

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I can’t say to go, when I would not go myself. :hatched_chick::hatched_chick::hatched_chick:

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I am afraid the women will reject me once they find out I don’t have a job.

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Who cares. Enjoy your friends. :blush:

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When I started dating my now husband,

He was unemployed.

AND had just moved his mother into her house.

She had her own rooms and living area, but still.

Neither one of those things kept me from being with someone fun that I got along with.

Rejection is part of dating,

Don’t let that scary you off.

Putting yourself out there is the most difficult part.

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Experiencing more of this helps one improve. Go out few times. You have friends with you.

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I wouldn’t let one comment get you down. You were sick after all of course you’re not gonna be always smiling. Nothing to do with your personality. If you wanna go then go! Have fun mate

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@anon67051439 did you decide to go or not go?

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I did not go

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I would go if the meds didn’t make me very sleepy, on Abilify I went as I was much less sleepy right after taking it

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