I am romantically interested in this girl

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IDK. Maybe talk to her a few more times; feel her out, see if she’s receptive to you.
Be friendly, without being creepy. Nothing heavy, just small talk. See if she has any interest in you at all. Or if she would have any interest in you.

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but no, Nick, you gotta get her out on the town!

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The topic of perceived stalking is not something to take lightly but my one that got away was a guy from college that I used to joke was stalking me. He never asked me out though and I never forgot him. That was in college and prodrome phase. I am SZA though so I know that I am not the norm. You should always be direct and don’t beat around the bush. Either ask her out or don’t to be clear.

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Not all women
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Probably cos you’re a good looking young man. You’re probably young enough to be my son (my daughter is 24) but you’re handsome

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His dad is her employer. That creates a serious power imbalance. Not cool. Women already have a hard enough time in the workplace.

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I’m 34 not sure if I’m young enough to be your son haha but thanks though!

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Yeah no. I was thinking you were like 25.

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I think you’re asking for trouble.

I don’t know the details, but it sounds like she was uncomfortable with some of your behavior in the past and she told her employer (your dad).

If things are smoothed over as you say then it’s probably a good idea to just leave things be.

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Im gonna level with you. If you keep persuing this, it could end very badly for you, her, and your dad. She very clearly stated she isn’t interested and felt uncomfortable. If you keep persuing her, she might have grounds to sue your father, she might feel like her job is being threatened, etc. The best thing you can do for this girl,if yoy care about her, is to stay away. Like @matthewj said, just look to talk to people,both men and women, to practice social skills. After that, you might feel more comfortable and confident with a different girl in the future.

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