The girl that I am interested in works for my father. She is very attractive. We are the opposites as far as personality goes. She is outspoken, I am shy, she is decicive, I am undecicive.
It was very unfortunate. I got delusional(this was a long time ago) and I came on to her just by asking questions. She told my dad that I wasn’t acting quite right. It was devastating to me because the very girl that I like thought that I was stalking her.
Now the situation is kind of smoothed over. But it is awkward whenever I see her. Is there anyway I can ask her if she wants to hang or something? I think she is scared of me. So I think this is a tough one.
Girls are very sensitive ! It is very easy to creep them out or scare them. But I think it’s a good lesson for you. I’ve had so many romantic and sexual failures it makes you wiser. You have to make women feel comfortable and safe !!
There’s not really any reason to move on I mean people aren’t replaceable if you like her I would say take your shot. There’s a lot of stigma about schizophrenics and I hope she’s not scared about that or something if so why not try to show her the real you. If she says yes great if she says no it’s okay move on
I would just be yourself and ask her. The worst that can happen is she’s not interested. If she’s not threatened by you, she may eventually change her mind.
I still think there is a chance. One reason is because it happened like 10 years ago. Another reason is because I’ve talked her a number times this past year and she seemed ok.
I’m a schmuck ! Ha ha what do I know ?! But actually I’ve asked out girls and guys and I rarely get turned down! I’ve been embarrassed I rememeber I was in high school and I asked a girl for her number and she said why and I turned red and said so we could date? And she said I have a boyfriend. That experience made me embarrassed but you get better at it! But don’t ask her out though. Just find another girl seriously ! It’s kind of casual ! Just talk to more people men and women ! Make friends !! If you never talk to women you should not start asking them out! Just talk to people don’t ask anyone out yet. Just talk to everyone and work on your social skills!
My suggestion is to get out more, expand your world from the microcosm that only your dad stepmom and this girl occupy and try to forget about this girl.