I’m terrible in the dating scene. I was hoping people can give me good indicators if a girl likes me.
A guy can tell when a girl is getting moony over him.
She always tries to be around you. For example you could be sitting down and she’d walk in front of you with her booty almost in your face. She might touch you. Anything to be close to you.
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I talk to this girl I like everyday but when I ask her if she wants to go to the art museum or science museum etc., she turns it down.
I am starting to think she just wants to be friends. But I’m not good at this kind of thing.
If she likes you, you’ll know. If she doesn’t, you’ll be confused.
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Yeah, she probably doesn’t like me.
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Maybe she wants to go somewhere fun that doesnt suck
Seriously though. If you ask her if she wants to go somewhere and she says no it means she doesnt want to go there. Think of something fun
In Internet dating women play men like a poker hand talking to different guys going for maximal happiness. It’s pure hedonism. People think you’re a good man if you have a good job. Everything is show me this or that; very shallow, but men are shallow too. Hard to read; they change their interests like the wind depending on what are favorable conditions for the day. Men don’t have many options internet dating like women do. They can afford to ghost people, men can’t.
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I guess I have a case of erotomania.
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No erotomania youre sure she likes you.
I mean we talk everyday. I plan dates and every time she says she wants to go but then turns around and says she can’t go.
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Try a couple more times and then either ask her flat if she is interested in you or just give it up and try another girl.
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She might just be looking to meet her emotional needs by talking to you. I know when I did internet dating it’s so hard to get a woman to meet off the internet. They like the feeling of infinite choices. There’s some finality about meeting someone. They make an unconscious decision to leave behind other male suitors. With the constant barrage of multiple men attention it must be hard to give up the idealism that internet dating creates.
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My sense is that shes a dummy thats not worth your time. By dummy i mean stuff just bounces off her and she doesnt communicate anything back.
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She’s definitely no dummy. She’s very smart.
She did tell me one time that she feels “safe around me.” I’m not sure if she means that like friends or something deeper.
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Nah thats not what i mean by dummy. You cant get the message you need from her. Just ask her outright if she is interested in a better relationship with you.
they might seem interested in you?
that’s just me the ever romantic (slaps forehead)
She said she feels safe around me and everything, she just sleeps turning down my dates. Could she just be nervous?
Its basic behavior. Nobody knows why they string guys along to eventually break your heart. It has happened billions of times and it will happen trillions more and each time the guy and girl will be completely naive
Not all women are like that, but I have met some that do that.
At least the girl I’m talking to isn’t like that.
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