I quarreled and shouted out loud with my dad and told him I want to leave the work but I didn’t get up the courage to leave,I really hated the place now,everyone probably dislike me plus I don’t have anymore mood to work there,I need strenght from someone to pull me away from that job,I rather stay at home and not see those people…
Do you want another, different job? Or you don’t want to work at all, anywhere?
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I actually want another job,different job…change of environment
Why doesn’t your father let you try a new job? Maybe he’s afraid you won’t succeed and then it may cause the family problems. Is there any changes you or your father can make at your current job that will make it more enjoyable or bearable?
It’s not about succeeding,I just want to take care of myself.I have talked to my parent about finding other job,they are angry and not supportive…the job makes me feel so lazy because I don’t love the job…
Why do you need his permission? Other then that what is stopping you from just finding anther job anyway?
I guess my self confidence is stopping me,I don’t know how to do it…
How’d you get the last job?
I had never work or find a job myself,after school,my parent drag me to work for them…this was my only job,I never learn anything to be honest…I don’t care too,now I just want the bro nothing and rot lol
That explains the situation a whole lot better.
Did he work for his father at one stage also? As family businesses are common for your culture are they not?
One thing to look into is doing an assertiveness course that does role playing. You want one that goes for at least 6 weesk for a few hours once a week. You can role play with someone else how to communicate effectively to your dad. It will help you in the future as well.
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A lot of people are stuck in jobs they hate. If you can find a better alternative, go for it. If not, decide how much you need a pay check.