I have a horrid relationship with my Dad. For the past two years he just completely ignores me day to day. He does the same thing with my mum. When he does want to talk its always negative “you’ve done this wrong” “you need to start doing this because I say so”
Yesterday he was trying to have one of these chats and I just flipped out on him. I told him how I felt all he does is criticise me when he wants something and then ignore me for the rest of the time. I told him he cant have it both ways.
He told me that its his house and that he pays the mortage and that I should show respect etc. I told him I dont even like him being here.
Later he got all furious with me and demanded an apology and when I said I wasnt apologising he started going “you’ve got to go. Get out” etc.
If my mum wasnt here I probably would already be on the streets.
The weird thing is I dont even feel bad for what I said. It wasnt nice but it is how I feel. I almost feel freer having said that - even if it does mean I won’t have a fixed address soon.