I went to the gym by myself today! My husband arrived 30 minutes after I got there.
Huge success for me
I just did upper body so I didn’t exacerbate my healing broken ankle.
My husband asked me if I took it easy because according to him my body “is in deplorable condition”. Yes, I did.
I still worked my muscles until they burned for a bit but I did really light weights.
I hadn’t been to the gym since just before November 22nd when I broke my ankle almost completely in half.
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POET
February 8, 2024, 9:01pm
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Wow congrats for overcoming any social anxiety you may have had. Sounds like a step forward hope you had fun at the gym
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Thanks @POET .
It’s not social anxiety, it’s a fear that the men who follow me etc will kidnap and torture me.
I’ve been doing better for a few months now where I’m getting out of the house.
My new meds help me to feel more calm so I can keep telling myself to ignore my fears and keep refocusing on whatever it is I’m doing.
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POET
February 8, 2024, 9:13pm
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I see hmm good stuff glad you’re able to overcome that fear. I hope it diminishes all together over time. Must be a scary delusion.
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Aziz
February 8, 2024, 9:14pm
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LilyoftheValley:
November 22nd
I havent been to the gym since around that time too. I need to go back. I miss the summer as I feel better and can walk a lot in the sun
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@POET yes, it’s very scary. But I want healthy friendships in my life and that requires getting out and about. I’m very thankful for my meds
@Aziz yeah, once you’re there, it feels good to be there. Good luck!
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Nicely done @LilyoftheValley I’m happy for you. I am planning on canceling my gym membership in a few months coming up. I am dieting though.
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Thanks @anon90992146 . Do you just not like working out?
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Well I suppose I I don’t like exercise in a public setting. I prefer exercise at home. It was impulsively done when I signed up for the membership. I don’t really care for that particular gym either. @LilyoftheValley
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@anon90992146 , I totally get that.
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Good job!
I have a delusion about 3 men tracking me. I understand the struggle.
But you did GREAT!
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see121
February 8, 2024, 11:19pm
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That’s great! I hope to go back to the gym too.
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see121
February 8, 2024, 11:21pm
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That’s seems very frightening. But I hope you feel safe. It seems you have a very caring husband.
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Gamera
February 9, 2024, 12:16am
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That’s amazing! Great job.
I’m trying to start a gym habit too. My DBT program recommends 20 minutes of exercise everyday. I think 20 minutes isn’t too bad, so I’m going to commit to going for just 20 minutes. I figure it will be over before I know it! But getting going is the hard part…
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@Gamera , I think starting with 20 minutes is a great idea. It’s not so overwhelming that way
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February 23, 2024, 12:18am
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