I mean like there are love children, then there are children who have to be given to adoption because they were unplanned. I was an unplanned baby within a marriage which probably isn’t quite so bad since the layout is all there already. But I think it gives children a cold view of life when we realize they (our parents) weren’t thinking of us. 
I was about as planned as I could possibly be. My Mom took fertility medicine. Me and my twin were no accident. I must say though that was before my Dad’s brother started having “the radio talk to him.”
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Ridiculous. Our parents wanted us.
I always got the feeling I was “unwelcome”. I always got the feeling my brother was “welcome”. I think I was a surprise. My brother was certainly planned.
I was planned and my parents even wanted more than one child.
I was planned for, but I don’t think my parents liked the way I turned out. I’m the black sheep of the family.
I was the result, of the welcome home from the Korean war.
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Apparently two of us were accidents. The rest were planned
Teenage pregnancy. I shouldn’t say this but my mom was completely unprepared in a lot of ways and I don’t think she always knew what to do.
Y chromosome is God knows where.
My parents tried fertility doctor because they were having problems, then decided to adopt my sister. Later, I came around unplanned.
I was super unplanned. Parents adopted my brother, who was born premature and addicted to cocaine, and a month after the papers were signed they found out they were pregnant with me.
He’s only 7 months older than me. My mother told me several times as a young child how inconvenient it was that she got pregnant with me. And how she didn’t have time for me because she needed to care for my brother and he needed her more.
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What do you mean by that shouldn’t you come down on your dad?
Women have XX. Men have XY.
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Yeah, I don’t like him for sure. that’s why I often refer to him as Y donor. That entire side of the family has done absolutely nothing for me. Tbh I don’t know his face.
I mean all that literally. No responsibility.
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I must have been unplanned because I was abandoned at an orphanage. Or maybe my birth mom didn’t like my face.
I was unplanned, my mom had me at 20. I love that she had me young, that means I get to have her in my life until I’m like 60-70.
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Yes. My parents were older (36 and 39) and I think that is one of the reasons we had problems.
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Totally unplanned, mom turned 14 like 2 weeks before. Dad was 18. I am known as the accident on the front porch. My sisters were planned. Mom was 18 and 22 with them, they have same dad.
All of my kids were planned. Well, Raina is a mystery cause her conception date is like 4 weeks after we last had sex, but she ended up an almost 8 pound preemie…we know there was no cheating, just thinking she grew small for beginning, then ballooned and caught up. We call her our Little blonde hair blue eyed lefty demon, inside family joke.
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My Daughter was “sorta” planned. We didnt discuss children beforehand - but her biological clock was ticking, so we had un-protected sex a few times, to see what would happen.
I was one of triplets - so i dont know if i was planned or not. I know damn well tho that mother wouldn’t have had us - if she knew what a loser my father was. But we were all loved growing up.
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What kinda father was your dad @Naarai ? If you dont mind sharing.