[quote=“Berru, post:20, topic:78857”]
Also… I need to find a way to say it without hurting his feelings or enraging him further.I guess I should spend the next few days on figuring that out.He’s one of my best friends, and I do care for him.
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Start off with what you just said, that you don’t wish to hurt his feelings or anger him further, but since he is your best friend and you do care about him, maybe he could share with you what’s going on between you two.
It could be just some misunderstanding, or maybe someone told him something untrue about you, but either way, you’d like a chance to clear the air and be told.
You can’t fix (or try to fix) that which you don’t know.
Good luck, and hugs to you for trying.
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berru , be very careful with that , i lost my partner of 5 years along with all of my close friends because of my inability to be normal and not stop talking about my issues…honestly by his reactions it seems that you may be at a loss , not every1 has the patience and ability to deal with people who undergo the strange occurances that we do , its hard sometimes because people just dont care about us…I hope it all works out for you , hold onto your friends , if hes important then hes worth fighting for
I had a similar problem with an ex girlfriend of mine who made me miserable by always cutting off contact with me whenever I did or said anything that irritated her. So, I recently decided to let her go on a permanent basis. That’s just what you have to do. I don’t have many friends left. Only one left after her. But, I don’t need friends really. I keep myself very busy and occupied by myself and I never get lonely because I have God 24/7.
"How to tell my friend he might be making me worse?"
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