There’s a lot here that I have and some clarification I feel like adding… I think.
We coddle my sis mentally… bc she lives so far. I think my BIL may be greedy about leaving anything on the table. Up to and including things like respect.
I can’t shake it or how bad the advent of him in my journey/story has been.
Worse I’m sulking in real theories that he is like dominating my sis by proxy? By being a tough cookie for me?
There’s a ton here but I’ll leave you with this:
‘Enough. I can’t. Make it stop’. Phrases like that rattle in me.
Maybe you don’t understand but like one time he said : Social isn’t enough; you have to pay for things like cable, tv, Internet, phone, ad nauseum. We were alone. I think he’s way smarter than me and wanted a new piece of info he wanted me to come back with the sum I get? I can’t I don’t like him. I wish it were not like this…