Sounds like an attachment to something exists. Or there wouldn’t be the fear.
You could just freely relate to him while he wishes to… no strings attached
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■■■■ him good and he will allways come back lol
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Looooool 15charcters
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This is what I was thinking too.
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Sorry I don’t understand wat u mean about attachment n fear u sound like a Buddhist lol
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Is the sex good?
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I don’t discuss private matters sex is a private topic huhuh
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Well, if it is then I don’t think you have anything to worry about
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Sooo guys I made a thread on jealousy in general. So it got merged with this thread. But I’m not referring to just romantic relationship anymore just any type of situation. It’s a discussion thread on jeaoulsy and experience n how u dealt or not dealt etc x
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The jealousy thing was a two pronged attack for me. I craved external validation as a source of self worth, but nothing anyone ever said was enough to fully ease my mind because I didn’t believe it. I could only convince myself it was true when I was actively in their presence getting the reassurance.
The other bit: I was so used to feeling inferior and unworthy that it felt normal when someone treated me like I was inferior and unworthy. Deep down, I believed everyone saw me this way, and when people were open and up front about it I felt reassured that at least I wouldn’t have the rug pulled out from under me. When people would show me respect, it felt scary because I was always waiting for the other shoe to drop. It felt like I was being lured into a false sense of security so I would be easier to take advantage of. This paranoia drove off anyone who would have been kind to me.
I had to swear off dating all together for a few years. I had to build up my life so I could have concrete reasons to feel proud of myself. And then I met Mr. Star pretty quickly, because as it turns out, kind people were all around me, and I only needed to start believing they were real. And I needed to seem like a safe person for them to approach.
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Thanks @Ninjastar, insightful. Yes I need to work on self validation in a logical and emotional approach IN ORDER TO believe that I truly am worthy. It’s a process. Can I ask u how many years of working on self validation it took 4 u? It’s nice u found Mr star u deserve happiness
I’ve already started talking to a new guy but I feel extremely comfortable with him so there shouldn’t be jealousy prblms
However regarding that ex bf who I was jealous with, he is still a friend, well we giving it a month too cool off first. Just need to make sure I then don’t feel jealous anymore, this why this thread is being resurrected with a slight new approach. I can’t let go of him I love him so much as a human being
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You need to speak with him in private regarding this issue.
And I think it’s gross for you to want other men.
Your Husband seems like a good man. That’s my intuition.
I’m sure he loves you more than the other women around him.
I myself have 6 wives and one of them I met first so love the most.
It’s a strange love.
She is my twin soul.
My soul mate.
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Idk I’ve never been too jealous tbh.
Work hard on yourself. At the end of the day that does matter a lot- it means less competition.
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Come on now. I’m sure he loves you more than anything. Speak to him Zoe.
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Sounds like you are working through it
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I broke up with him. I don’t trust it will work that’s why. I feel uncomfortable with him as a partner that don’t mean I think he’s a bad guy… He’s amazing…sigh, smh
U can find it gross if u want I don’t care but I don’t, that I’m talking to a new guy.
But curious… Why is it gross that I’m now talking to a new man, but u have multiple wives? Is that OK?? But if I were wanting a new man, it’s gross? Confused.
And my ex partner was not a husband, he was just a partner.
Anyway thanks for ur input
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Yea it’s just cos I’m f u c k I n medicated. I can’t do so much like other ppl. Feels tough world.
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He’s a good man it’s true. But we just not compatible as a romantic partnership…
The true male spirit can have multiple wives for feminine energy.
But a woman can’t be with multiple dudes. Just my opinion. I don’t speak for Sons of G**
I only speak for myself.
Women only desire one man. The true man.
If I’m speaking strange it’s because I can’t say what I truly want to say or I’ll get banned.
Anyways my wives are like goddesses to me. I worship them they adore me.
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