When I feel ready, then

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I want a boyfriend and a girlfriend

It will make me feel right

in the sense of romantic relationships

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omg but what if they hook up with each other?

i don’t know what to do…

I am so afraid to open up romantically

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maybe i am not designed to be in a romantic relationship

right now, that feels sort of sad, not going to lie

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people always say,oh you just need to work on your confidence

but idk…if that is enough :disappointed:

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As long as it’s mutual although I don’t think I can handle too many partners :sob:

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i don’t know what to do with myself in terms of those kind of relatioships

i mean i am so scared to get psychotic again if i try to open up romantically

maybe i should just be single for life

but then, what will be my main thing in life?

anyone got ideas?

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yea ideally i like one man and that is it

but i need a woman too cos she understands my woman things

and it just feels like good back up

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Did someone say threesome? That’s hot.

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i did not think this through.

I was thinking more like me and a bf

and then separately also me and a gf

but it is not a good idea

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I know I b*tch about getting rejected by women because I have schizophrenia on this forum sometimes but in reality I’ve pretty much given up on finding a romantic relationship. I don’t really worry about it anymore. If it happens, it happens.

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I have often thought that I would be happy to have both a boyfriend and a girlfriend. I kind of tried it 6 years ago, and I liked that. But it only lasted about 3 months.

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also if i have sex i would want the man to always use a condom

there are many many women out there who don’t ask for that since they are on hormonal contraception

so he would be missing out on condom-less sex :fairy: if he was stuck with me

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and never the twain shall meet huh @Zoe ?

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I’d rather not have sex. I hate condoms. My gf at the time wasn’t too happy with them either.

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maybe i should adopt this attitude…but what becomes your passion in life, what makes you feel alive alive?

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oh that is awesome that you gave that a go!

sorry to hear that it did not last though?..

may i ask why it ended after 3 months?

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i have not the faintest idea what this means :disappointed:

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thanks for your honesty.

I think this is the case for most men if not all

out of the three guys i’ve been with, only one of them used condoms the other two hated them

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It’s a saying about 2 things not being able to coexist together. I was just saying that you would like to keep your boyfriend and girlfriend separate from each other.

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The girl moved to Berlin, and I live in Denmark. So my relationship with her ended, we remained in contact for about a year after, but only on e-mail. But I was very much in love with her.

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